Can you change the type of people you're attracted to?

[Stuntone]

Can you wing yourself off of being attracted to certain physical attributes? Or even looks period?
I love an nice azz, I don't feel I can live with out it. Not even just looks, some people are attracted to people that are the life of the party and socialite type, I personally like the quiet (not shy) types. Not saying one is better, but if you feel that type hasn't worked out well for you, how do you acquire a new taste for a different flavor?

And to women let's say you have been forever attracted to wild dudes, but have kids now and want to get a safe man, how would you do it? Or is it even possible? Or will always have a thing for them?

 

[At30wecashout]

I wouldn't even know how, cause no woman I have been attracted to has ever looked or acted like the other.

I have a mixed bag of tastes. Today I might like the short, big bootied pretty faced thing but next week I might be onto the yellow teethed girl with poor posture and a speech
impediment.

 

[MarcMan]

I don't have the evidence to back it up but anectdotally I can't see it. Attraction isn't a choice, for better or worse.

 

[Sterling Archer]

I wouldn't even know how, cause no woman I have been attracted to has ever looked or acted like the other.

I have a mixed bag of tastes today I might like the short, big bootied pretty faced thing but next week I might be onto the yellow teethed girl with poor posture and a speech
impediment.

 

[mannyrs13]

I think it depends on a case by case basis. You can grow to be attracted to someone that you usually wouldn't. Maybe someone that isn't the body type or has the looks that you like. You could prefer thick girls and then you meet a skinny girl that you vibe well with and you start liking her too. And vice versa. Everybody has their preferences on the opposite sex but once you meet someone that is different, you never know what could happen. The girl you may not originally be attracted to may eventually attract your mind instead.

 

[DrX]

i think so, when I was young all i cared about was sex and a women looks, now I try to see value in their personality and companionship ....IDK tho

 

[At30wecashout]

Sometimes I want Steak, other days Kibbles and Bits will do.

 

[The Oracle]

I think it depends on a case by case basis. You can grow to be attracted to someone that you usually wouldn't. Maybe someone that isn't the body type or has the looks that you like. You could prefer thick girls and then you meet a skinny girl that you vibe well with and you start liking her too. And vice versa. Everybody has their preferences on the opposite sex but once you meet someone that is different, you never know what could happen. The girl you may not originally be attracted to may eventually attract your mind instead.

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[1 other person]

I don't have the evidence to back it up but anectdotally I can't see it. Attraction isn't a choice, for better or worse.

I agree, this is why I don't look side ways at women fawning over 'bad-boys'. That's is what a lot of them are attracted to, it is what it is.

 

[BigMan]

Yeah, it's called growing up

 

[Jack Trippa 3z company ho]

I can def say that women I actually persue has changed over time. I used to only want the baddest chicks and I had my share.

The girl I'm seeing now isn't the baddest chick I've ever been with, but she has other qualities that 98% don't and that's what makes her attractive to me.

But physically I've had a wide variety my whole life.

 

[Dat Migo]

I'm starting to like white girls after a lifetime of disliking them.