Can you fault a signifanct other for doing you wrong if...

[craigsagersuit]

I was cheated on back in 2001.
I vowed if that ever happened to me again, there would be hell to pay

 

[Buckeye Fever]

That's me huggin my family after receiving my life sentence in an Illinois courtroom

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

They aren't your 'significant other' if you're not married to them.

All they are is your boyfriend/girlfriend. There's NOTHING 'significant' about that.​

 

[tater]

I agree with the latter part of your post. I don't think you can be "on" all the time, and when you're not, I think your SO should be there for you. Weight gain, money problems, etc. are things I think can be resolved.