Can you respect a girl who gave it up too soon?

[Ms. Elaine]

Listen, I'm pretty old fashioned and I've slut shamed a lot of people in my life time but I can't help but wonder about what guys think about this: could you respect a girl who gave it up way too soon? Can a relationship that is primarily based on sex actually last?


I know some chick who was talking to some dude online for less than two months and then he flew to her city and they hooked up on that very night and he went home the next day. She's since visited him but again, only for one weekend. They've only been together for less than a month, have only met 2 times and they've already booked weekend hotel sex vacations.



The hell? Is this a real relationship or is he simply using her for sex? I feel like her feelings are about to get hurt in the next few months.

 

[richaveli83]

No I couldn't.

 

[Ms. Elaine]

No I couldn't.

What I don't understand is this chick is smart too, has her own career. I don't understand why she feels like she has to act like this.

 

[Citi Trends]

Depends if she gives it up fast to everyone or she just really liked me

 

[Colin X]

Does she do it all the time or am I "special" to her?

 

[At30wecashout]

Absolutely. The thing is, not everybody wants to wait, and you best believe there are plenty of people who fukk very quickly and still have fairly normal relationships.

From the outside looking in, you could say a chick doesn't value her p*ssy, and that may be true, but what if instead of giving it up because she thinks that is how to

attract men, a woman gives it up cause she likes sex!


Its the indiscriminate, fukk anything attitude that I don't respect. Does she really like the dude she is fukking, or is she like this with everyone? Thats the question.

 

[Poitier]

2 months is way more than enough time.

 

[Ms. Elaine]

2 months is way more than enough time.

Of texting....

I'm sorry but if ya'll haven't physically met, that clock hasn't started.

 

[Ms. Elaine]

Absolutely. The thing is, not everybody wants to wait, and you best believe there are plenty of people who fukk very quickly and still have fairly normal relationships.

From the outside looking in, you could say a chick doesn't value her p*ssy, and that may be true, but what if instead of giving it up because she thinks that is how to

attract men, a woman gives it up cause she likes sex!


Its the indiscriminate, fukk anything attitude that I don't respect. Does she really like the dude she is fukking, or is she like this with everyone? Thats the question.

Well, apparently she just got out a long term relationship but jumped on this dude's dikk very soon after that. I low key think they were sexting while she was still with her ol dude. This dude appeared into her life the minute she broke up with her ex.

 

[Poitier]

Of texting....

I'm sorry but if ya'll haven't physically met, that clock hasn't started.

The physical aspect is the quickest to figure out.

 

[Ms. Elaine]

The physical aspect is the quickest to figure out.

I don't follow.

 

[Jay Kast]

If she gives it up to me quickly, who else has she given it up to that fast?

What does that say about her view of her own self worth?

I can play the indifferent role and be like, "Hey, women got needs too." But truthfully, Im very judgemental because you have to be when deciding whether or not to invest your time into someone. Time is the most valuable thing we have, period.

I aint gon' be that nikka that takes a broad serious that allowed herself to be used and thrown away like a wet rag.

Betta find yourself before you find me.

 

[At30wecashout]

Well, apparently she just got out a long term relationship but jumped on this dude's dikk very soon after that. I low key think they were sexting while she was still with her ol dude. This dude appeared into her life the minute she broke up with her ex.

She might just be yoloing. Folks who get free of a long-term relationship usually want new dikk/p*ssy till they feel open to seriously dating again.

Her situationship might not last very long when the new-dikk smell wears off.

 

[Cat piss martini]

I respect a woman that moves like a woman.
truth is women will dead alot of games
after getting sex out of the way.....
alot of cats will wait it out and bullshyt
after a woman gives in.
I say if a woman wanna fukk.......fukk.
once sex is out of the way youre gonna see
the real dude.

 

[Poitier]

I don't follow.

It shouldn't take long to know if you vibe with some beyond enjoying each others convo.