Challenging the narrative: Do women actually come to you when you “get your shyt together”?

[King]

I hear this around a lot. The whole “work on your purpose”, “make a lot of money”, “get rich”, “get an overpriced loft apartment in a metropolitan city”, “get an entry level luxury car”, etc.

But does that really actually change shyt in regards to casual sex?

Because logically, it seems like it all comes down to time and logistics.

In other words: 1. being around women 2. having the time to be around them

And it seems like the whole “be on your purpose” capitalist neoliberal self development track is the antithesis to both of those things.

Unless you’re starting a salon, you’ll most likely be around men in your financial pursuits. And since you’re so focused on whatever meaningless task meant to distract you, you’ll have LESS time to spend with women.

So brehs, think critically about your experiences and what you’ve witnessed. Do you actually have sex with more women when you’re “on the grind”? Or is this just a delusion meant to justify the time you’ve spent on these pursuits?

Which one is it: oochie wally or one mic?

 

[Popeyes]

And it seems like the whole “be on your purpose” capitalist neoliberal self development track is the antithesis to both of those things.

This whole sentence right here tells me why you don't get no bytches...

 

[Henri Christophe]

“get an entry level luxury car”

nikkas out here buying C-classes just for p*ssy?

but nah, p*ssy just becomes easier to manage when you got your shyt together.

you can more easily attract it & more easily replace it.

the grind is about isolation and focus... p*ssy is just a pleasant distraction.

 

[Tom Foolery]

If you're just a miserable nikka, nothing will help you.

 

[King]

If you're just a miserable nikka, nothing will help you.

If anything, following those pursuits would make a person miserable. “The grind” has been shown to increase anxiety, depression, and loneliness.

https://bpspsychub.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1111/bjso.12438

 

[blockburna420]

Damn you ain't ever got bytches

 

[King]

This whole sentence right here tells me why you don't get no bytches...

Damn you ain't ever got bytches

Where in the post did I say that I don’t get bytches?

All this shyt told me is that y’all don’t know how to read properly.

 

[blockburna420]

Where in the post did I say that I don’t get bytches?

All this shyt told me is that y’all don’t know how to read properly.

Many of your post tell me you never had hoes.

*insert dead giveaway gif*

You be in the bushes

 

[King]

Many of your post tell me you never had hoes.

*insert dead giveaway gif*

You be in the bushes

Nikka you don’t shut your smooth brained ass up and get the fukk on

 

[Roid Jones]

Mods can we give OPs spot to a new poster?

 

[UpNext]

Yeah because when your shyt is together you have a thriving social circle and when you're single with your shyt together your circle is gonna float women they think will be a good match for you your way.

 

[Software]

Where in the post did I say that I don’t get bytches?

All this shyt told me is that y’all don’t know how to read properly.

I haven’t had sex in almost 3 years AMA EDIT: I had sex

 

[Ohene]

nikkas out here buying C-classes just for p*ssy?

but nah, p*ssy just becomes easier to manage when you got your shyt together.

you can more easily attract it & more easily replace it.

the grind is about isolation and focus... p*ssy is just a pleasant distraction.

Like why do these nikkas complicate shyt so much

its so simple

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

Its very simple: live a life you are happy with. If the women around you aren't impressed by that lifestyle, that is not your problem.

Get your car, get your house, be healthy and strengthen your bonds with people that are good to you and reciprocate the consideration you show them.

I've got a lifestyle that I'm happy with, I'm not willing to get bent out of shape trying to modify it for a woman. If shes cool with my lifestyle and has something similar going then great. If not, then that's fine too. If you have to choose between a peaceful existence and getting cheeks the answer should be obvious.

 

[RedCloakBlackWraithe]

I hear this around a lot. The whole “work on your purpose”, “make a lot of money”, “get rich”, “get an overpriced loft apartment in a metropolitan city”, “get an entry level luxury car”, etc.

But does that really actually change shyt in regards to casual sex?

Because logically, it seems like it all comes down to time and logistics.

In other words: 1. being around women 2. having the time to be around them

And it seems like the whole “be on your purpose” capitalist neoliberal self development track is the antithesis to both of those things.

Unless you’re starting a salon, you’ll most likely be around men in your financial pursuits. And since you’re so focused on whatever meaningless task meant to distract you, you’ll have LESS time to spend with women.

So brehs, think critically about your experiences and what you’ve witnessed. Do you actually have sex with more women when you’re “on the grind”? Or is this just a delusion meant to justify the time you’ve spent on these pursuits?

Which one is it: oochie wally or one mic?

casual sex is kinda dangerous if you got your shyt together tbh....way too much to lose.