My wife and I have been seperated for 4 months now. I haven't had any contact with her for 5 weeks . We were together for 12 years and married for 7. I found out she cheated on me, and while for a few days she showed extreme remorse, she ended up moving out and asking for a divorce. I tried reconciliation for a few weeks, but found out she was still seeing the Other Man at the time. She treated me with no respect and as if I had no value.
My wife is 37 years old, and the Other Man is 24. What the ****??? He is a ****ing security guard
…. I truly loved my wife and never once cheated on her. My wife and I had ups and downs in our marriage. As I think every mature normal couple do. At the time of the affair, we were having some problems, but I asked my wife if she needed anything from me, or was unhappy, and she said no. A month later I find out she is cheating on me and has been for a couple months.
Wherere is the justice in this world that I am the one who is heartbroken and having huge difficulties moving on. Why should she get to be happy and act as though she were in her twenties again? To go from a relationship with me to this other man she seems to be so head over heels for. She acts as though this were the first and only man she ever loved, as if she has found her one true soulmate. How can you forget about 12 years so completely and utterly so quickly??
How can you write off a person you have known for so long and so intimately without the merest glimpse of regret?? How can you “fall in love” so quickly, after your marriage bed has barely had time to cool. I’m so angry,sad, upset with the whole unfairness of it all. Why am I the one who has to suffer because of her betrayal? People say to take care of yourself, and that it is for the best, but it sure doesn’t ****ing feel like that. I want my wife back, **** it hurts and sucks so much. I don't know if I should contact her, or just keep going no contact. I have a lot of her things (winter clothes etc.) and don't know what to say or do, or not say when I expect she will contact me about them. Any insights or advice is really appreciated
Fred
My wife is 37 years old, and the Other Man is 24. What the ****??? He is a ****ing security guard
…. I truly loved my wife and never once cheated on her. My wife and I had ups and downs in our marriage. As I think every mature normal couple do. At the time of the affair, we were having some problems, but I asked my wife if she needed anything from me, or was unhappy, and she said no. A month later I find out she is cheating on me and has been for a couple months.Wherere is the justice in this world that I am the one who is heartbroken and having huge difficulties moving on. Why should she get to be happy and act as though she were in her twenties again? To go from a relationship with me to this other man she seems to be so head over heels for. She acts as though this were the first and only man she ever loved, as if she has found her one true soulmate. How can you forget about 12 years so completely and utterly so quickly??
How can you write off a person you have known for so long and so intimately without the merest glimpse of regret?? How can you “fall in love” so quickly, after your marriage bed has barely had time to cool. I’m so angry,sad, upset with the whole unfairness of it all. Why am I the one who has to suffer because of her betrayal? People say to take care of yourself, and that it is for the best, but it sure doesn’t ****ing feel like that. I want my wife back, **** it hurts and sucks so much. I don't know if I should contact her, or just keep going no contact. I have a lot of her things (winter clothes etc.) and don't know what to say or do, or not say when I expect she will contact me about them. Any insights or advice is really appreciated
Fred
