Cheating

[SafeForWork]

As far as marriage goes, if everything is going well for the most part, financially and emotionally; and there is a clear understanding, is it time to at the possibility that your woman cheated or is cheating?

From my experience, married women who cheat do so not to fall in love, but for other reasons that they are not willing to sacrifice their marriage for.

I've never been married or cheated on (to my knowledge) so I can't imagine the heartbreak, but I would imagine that the heartbreak of divorce with it's financial distress and deterioration of your family + world hold a heavier punch than cheating.

My question is not whether cheating should be encouraged or if it should be ok for your spouse to cheat, tell you, and not expect any consequence, but at this point, is there evena reason to be scared to marry because of the possibility of cheating?

Though disrespectful, I'm starting to see it as trivial. It's just sex.

 

[dr. pill biden]

I'm a woman but as long as house and home is being taken care of, and he's still being affectionate with me, I wouldn't openly encourage him to cheat but it is status. It wouldn't be the only thing make or break our marriage by far. If anything, because as we all know men and women are different, he'll prolly get tired of some crazy, needy side joint before I even gotta be worried.



Now, if he's spending money on someone that isn't in our household, or he or any of these bytches bringing that bullshyt to my doorstep...thennnnnnn we'll have a problem

 

[KnowledgeIsQueen]

Has nothing to do with the act of sex, it all boils down to betrayal, IMO.

If you find out your S/O is unfaithful and decide to stay, your imagination will constantly conjure up situations that only exist in your mind. But, to you they're real or have the possibility of happening. Said thoughts will lead to animosity, bickering, then resentment. The aforementioned on top of the inability to trust is a recipe for disaster whether you're married or not.

 

[Sierra Mist]

You cheat. You die. Simple.

 

[MikelArteta]

"women cheat to strengthen the marriage, it allows them to know that they really love their husband"

 

[TRUEST]

chicks who know they're man is cheating are usually the worst. they feel they have that card to do whatever they want.

 

[Captain Crunch]

I'm a woman but as long as house and home is being taken care of, and he's still being affectionate with me, I wouldn't openly encourage him to cheat but it is status. It wouldn't be the only thing make or break our marriage by far. If anything, because as we all know men and women are different, he'll prolly get tired of some crazy, needy side joint before I even gotta be worried.



Now, if he's spending money on someone that isn't in our household, or he or any of these bytches bringing that bullshyt to my doorstep...thennnnnnn we'll have a problem

I like where your head is

 

[twan83]

Its like this whether you married or not YOU CAN'T STOP SOMEBODY FROM CHEATING its that simple. That's reality of the situation. Don't dwell on it at all. Don't accuse that person either. Unless you got proof just enjoy what you have with that person. Sure u might think it and u want to find out go for it more power too you. Unless you got photos or catch em in the act Y STRESS THE HELL OUT ABOUT IT.

I've been cheated on before and i be lying to say it dont hurt it does especially if you love them a lot. People cheat because they choose too. You could give them the world and they will still do it. THIS IS LIFE.

The best way to handle it is if you did your best gave them your all and they cheat ya it will hurt but you can hold your head up high and say you know what I gave you my all and you did me wrong I deserve better and will get with someone better who appreciates me for who I am. If you come running back my door will be shut closed cuz you messed up a good thing

 

[MikelArteta]

Key logger


Ain't nothing better than finding a trollop in the act

 

[SafeForWork]

I'm a woman but as long as house and home is being taken care of, and he's still being affectionate with me, I wouldn't openly encourage him to cheat but it is status. It wouldn't be the only thing make or break our marriage by far. If anything, because as we all know men and women are different, he'll prolly get tired of some crazy, needy side joint before I even gotta be worried.



Now, if he's spending money on someone that isn't in our household, or he or any of these bytches bringing that bullshyt to my doorstep...thennnnnnn we'll have a problem

I hear you.

I think one's indivdual promiscuity plays a large role in this issue. I have met a few promiscuous married women who flirt with men other than their spouse and wait dormant until the man aggressively responds to the flirting to upgrade it to cheating.

Married women who are not really promiscuous or openly flirtatious intimidate men who are not their husbands because the man will assume that he has no chance as soon as he sees the ring.

To go back to my initial point, if I married a promiscuous woman (which I would not do knowingly, but you never know) I don't think I would view cheating as a deal breaker as long as everything else is fine.

Now to piggy back Knowledge is Queen, if I view cheating as completely out of her character and she does that I will feel betrayed. I am not sure whether that bretrayal would be enough for me to throw my family and current livelyhood away, though.

 

[Double Burger With Cheese]

Marriage

 

[...and some waffle fries]

How do you know that you are satisfied with what you have until you had something else?

 

[SafeForWork]

How do you know that you are satisfied with what you have until you had something else?

But marriage is soooo much bigger than sex. My question is about cheating that is just sex, not the cheating where you are carrying along multiple relationships.

 

[twan83]

How do you know that you are satisfied with what you have until you had something else?

You know when you have smashed enough to where you lay next to them and they are sexy as hell and a actually a good person and FEEL LONELY.

That's where you reached your peak and are ready to start a serious relationship with somebody cuz you are done with the games and having fun.

You will be able to resist temptation and be faithful

 

[...and some waffle fries]

But marriage is soooo much bigger than sex. My question is about cheating that is just sex, not the cheating where you are carrying along multiple relationships.

As men we may try to rationalize it but i dont think there is a explanation for it. Curiosity killed the cat and we keep