The concept of sin and punishment period is weird for many Christians b/c they become preoccupied with it. People absolutely LOVE the idea of punishment and it has its merits but when u eagerly want to condemn people to the fiery pits more than the alleged maker u worship does then u gotta issue.
Sex isn't sin. Lust and fornification is. Not b/c lust is evil but b/c people don't have good control over their faculties and b/c of where it leads.
I actually think God wants you to have a great amazing satisfying sex life.
God wants you to bust raw, and do all the freaky shyt you possibly can do...to one person b/c sex comes with a need for responsibility. And most will tell you that the best most satisfying sex comes from someone you have the most intense love connection with. Have ya'll ever been there? Been with somebody that made you wanna jump them as soon as they walked in the room. Where even the most mundane actions are sexualized b/c u love em that much. Like u don't wanna see other people b/c u just counting down until u can get back in bed with that person? Lmao! Like neither of ya'll can last more than a few minutes type of shyt?
God is perfection and he/she/it wants that for us everytime. And when we waste our time on lesser connections, it takes a trek into further depths to get to the same intensity. Really that's why porn is a big deal. It's a placeholder for what most truly want. And as it gets boring ur forced to consume darker and darker mediums to get near the high u feel from true intimacy.
What's funny is the reaction people have to porn that is more erotic. I saw some massage porn once that got the highest rating on the entire site b/c people kept recognizing elements of the love they are searching for. One commenter said he felt like he was watching something sacred.
But I digress. God isn't trying to punish people for sin. God is merely pointing out the obvious that sin leads to many different deaths. Sin is about excess. Gluttony is a sin. Not that food is evil but the focus of it to the ignorance of everything else leads to a lot of shyt. Wrath is a sin. Being angry isn't evil but catering to it and where it leads. It isn't about restricting freedoms. It's about teaching humans a way of life that leads to a higher quality of living. And ultimately a return to "partake in the divine unity."
Hell is merely as Paul told ya'll, any place where we try to reject God or (if u really wanna get weird with me) ourselves. And I genuinely believe every person, being, dominion, spirit, demon and angel, eventually returns to the divine. Hell is just the period of time spent away from God and for some it might happen instantaneously and others it might take an eternity, but eventually we all come back.
(But in the meantime, pls have a healthy, wonderful, fulfilling sex life with someone who loves you. And if you do find urself in the tranny/pissing/fisting side of the internet

, just kindly redirect ur urges and come on back. I won't judge, God rolling his eyes at your existential procrastination, the saints lookin at you like

but the universe loves you all the same.)