Coli brehs... are we writing single mothers off too soon?

[Huellz Santana]

I got at least two homegirls who are single moms. they made a mistake with their high school/early college sweetheart but rebounded and have a career.

they're both real chill and know what they want in a significant other and have no time for games. plus their kids are well behaved

are you guys still against this? they have their own shyt and are just lookign for good guys. most are willing to cook and cater as well.

iono bruhs, im feelin like these chicks may be a STEAL.

i feel like saying no to ALL single moms is like saying no to all used cars or somethin ridiculous like that. im not sayin u gotta marry them, but some are worth legitimately dating.

plus if you can see what type of mother she already is if youre ever thinkin about kids.

thoughts?

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[Sierra Mist]

Never in any society has it been deemed as ok to be a single mother, or get with a single mother. Stop lowering your standards. It's the scarlet letter and for good reasons.

 

[Double J]

Nah their damaged goods breh.

The fukk I look like raising some other nikkaz seed?

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

*Purchases stock in thread*

 

[john goodman]

Never in any society has it been deemed as ok to be a single mother, or get with a single mother. Stop lowering your standards. It's the scarlet letter and for good reasons.

Shut up you stupid ho

 

[Kalik]

I'm in if it's 1 kid, cuz I have 2 of my own. More than 1 and that aint no mistake, thats a pattern.
Plus a divorce is a plus in this situation VS random dude bussed raw and dipped.

Again I'm 32... IF you 21-25 and have abundance of childfree women around, don't pick the one with kids. In the 27-32 age group, 1 kid is normal.

 

[The NegRep Ninja]

*throws star*

*vanishes*

 

[Last Dayze]

will these threads ever end..

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

I'd really like to hear from the single mothers on this issue. I'd actually would like a civil dialogue between the women and the men who write them off. Usually it's just bashing. The women don't even bother to defend themselves.

 

[john goodman]

These women are out here trying to raise a god damn child

As human beings we should give them all the encouragement we can

 

[marcuz]

i don't want a pre-made family, bruh.

it's cool that they learned their mistakes and all, but why does it always have to be after they got turned out by some dude(s) who's probably in jail or doing the same shyt to other women?

yeah, you can get a bargain if you're willing to settle for a woman with a kid but that shyt is disrespectful to me. i couldn't look myself in the mirror knowin i'm basically being conned into playing replacement daddy.

 

[BeeCityRoller]

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

Whether we agree or not these women are birthing and raising the future of the black race. We can't totally write those women off because the cycle just continues. Black men really need to be out here mentoring these reckless youths. If you're not going to date a single mother, fine. But damn, volunteer at a community center, a boys and girls club, YMCA. These youths, especially the males, NEED positive role models or we're just going to have generation after generation of single mothers and lazy, shiftless black men.

 

[Schmoove]

*Purchases stock in thread*

Can we start doing this for coli cash??

 

[Nintendough]

I don't write anybody off but a few things concern me....

1. I don't like that another man is always going to be in the picture.

2. I don't want to get swept up in a situation where i'm conspired against and have a disadvantage.

3.