And end of the day thats still their past. You should judge people on their current actions. Not what they used to do, or what has happened to them. 1 star thread.
OP is actually somewhat right, though.. And I want to be clear on that because it probably sounds like I'm disagreeing with him. He's simply using the wrong terms.
But I will tell you from experience that it is VERY worth taking their backgrounds into consideration when dealing with these types of chicks.
And it's not "judging"
I'm so SICK of todays over-misuse of that word by EVERYONE.
It's the cool and hip thing to say so of course mainstream America has leeched onto it like the sheep they are.. "Ew you judge ppl, eww you have an opinion that isn't flowers and candy you're judging eww don't judge"..completely obliterating what the word even means, especially in the context with which they THINK they're applying it. Okay 'judging' rant over lol.
Like I said, from my experience these types of females are entirely different piece of work. You have to be extremely patient and controlled, or it could really get ugly.
It's like you have to be the adult for both of you, at times.
And the most overwhelming thing that I found difficult to deal with was the constant sense of a daddy/daughter relationship, not man/woman.
Yeah, you read that right. Those chicks don't have a sense of equality or "partnership" in a relationship.
Nope. To them,
you're their daddy and they tend to act as such. And it may be hard to fathom what that's like if you've never had to deal with it but trust me, it's no fun feeling like you're scolding a child when this is supposed to be your WOMAN.
It takes a special man, or maybe a man who can relate, to deal with women like them. It's sad, too, because it's not their fault.
I did what I could with my ex but after almost 3 years it just didn't work.
It's not to say that relationships with them CANT work, just saying that it is VERY MUCH WORTH taking their past into consideration prior to going down a path of commitment with them.
You HAVE to be prepared mentally for that.
and no you shouldn't go after a woman with a deep manly ass voice.Not only do their voices get really annoying fast, but the reason im telling you to stay away from them is because 95% of them usually have some sort of problem( even more so than the average woman). Almost all women i have met/had sex with that had really queaky voices have have been crazy or had a bad past. the #1 problem that seemed to be a reoccurring factor that contributes to this, is being raped/sexual assault at a very young age. I think thats why most of them keep that childlike voice. You can choose to take my advice
or brush it off as me being ignorant. iv'e talked to my friends and they all agreed with me. if any of you guys have any experiences with this feel free to share what you know about this.
