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Im 33 and single. Was in a weird relationship with this women for 3 years, i cut her off one day and never looked back in february of 2014...

By the end of last year, i cut off everyone that were around because they needed me to make them feel better...i woke up and realized no matter how much love or care for people that are broken, they will always be damaged goods.

I also quit my shytty job id been doing for many years...currently i drive limo and am making twice as much a week than a job i worked nearly 8 years...im starting to have savings and am signing up for IT cert courses on the weekend.

Just as recently i was juggling three girls, one 31, one 22 and one 21. Cut off the 31 year real quick once she told me she was in a relationshio for 12 years, she is way too broken for me to invest my time and energy for her to be scared of living...just decided to cut off the 22 year old cause she has a baby daddy who she isnt with but has a dope dealing boyfriend but wants to fukk me cause i got bread...i told her we just gonna fukk (which we hadnt done yet, my schedule too hectic) and she was with it...too much baggage and reading the thread about homie being told his girl has herpes, scared me...if this thot going around sucking dikk and cheating, i aint trying to get a std at this age.

Im keeping the 21 year old around, we speak daily. She is fun and i dont see a future at all but need good sex in my life...she claims she is single and her ex left her for some other flyer chick lol. Shes jamaican, puerto rican and part german. Nice body, nice eye candy...

My point to anyone reading this, no matter what the age, dont waste time with negative people. Friends, bytches, family or whatever. If you have dreams, surround yourself with people that are visionaries...expect nothing from anyone...build your finances. Have good credit...stop believing someone will do the work for you to be successful.

To my young coli brethren and home girls, get degrees or certs. Always make "me" time, travel and read. Have thirst for knowledge, be well rounded and above all, truthful to yourself. Focus on your self and only then you can make a better life for yourself and those you care to label family.

I wasted my younger years trying to encourage friends and people who were lost, in the mix i got jaded...remember offer opinions and advice carefully. People dont like the truth, they like a convenient lie.

With all that said, im just sharing my life experience, anyone who disagrees, i respect your choice. Life is great, life is beautiful. Be thankful you are here and can have a second chance to do what you want. It aint always about bytches and money.

Focus on you. Peace and love.
 

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how did you get into driving limos? seems like a good job :leon:

Bro my brother had been doing it on and off...one of my dearest friend drove limo and went to grad school to get his degree. They both told me the money is there and i went and got my tlc license and did the training with a limo company and went to work. I work 7 days, 12 hour shifts. Dont drive when it snows...i average around 1400 a week. No wife, no kids. Monthly expenses around 2500. I owe 23k in student loans...nothing else. Gonna get my credit back up to 780 plus by next year. Focused on me. Rest falls into place.
 

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To be honest Im dealing with a 21 yr old also and although I don't think we have a future, mainly due to the age gap.

Really ain't replace her yet either and I'm not until I find some p*ssy on her level.:ohlawd:

Life to short to settle for mediocre sex and lazy work ethic in the bed.:yeshrug:
 

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I agree with you. Especially about trying to help lost people. After a certain point you just gotta tell them to :camby:

I used to have some people in my life that were clearly trying to drag me down to their level. Every time I would hang out with them they would bring out the worst in me. They were not going anywhere and they wanted me right there with them. So I cut em off. But I didn't tell them why I was cutting them off because they have too much dirt on me. I just went dark on them. I'd recommend this method to everyone.

It takes a bit of effort to examine the relationships in your life and how those people either enhance or erode your life/mindset. It's well worth doing though.
 

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I agree with you. Especially about trying to help lost people. After a certain point you just gotta tell them to :camby:

I used to have some people in my life that were clearly trying to drag me down to their level. Every time I would hang out with them they would bring out the worst in me. They were not going anywhere and they wanted me right there with them. So I cut em off. But I didn't tell them why I was cutting them off because they have too much dirt on me. I just went dark on them. I'd recommend this method to everyone.

It takes a bit of effort to examine the relationships in your life and how those people either enhance or erode your life/mindset. It's well worth doing though.
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I agree with you. Especially about trying to help lost people. After a certain point you just gotta tell them to :camby:

I used to have some people in my life that were clearly trying to drag me down to their level. Every time I would hang out with them they would bring out the worst in me. They were not going anywhere and they wanted me right there with them. So I cut em off. But I didn't tell them why I was cutting them off because they have too much dirt on me. I just went dark on them. I'd recommend this method to everyone.

It takes a bit of effort to examine the relationships in your life and how those people either enhance or erode your life/mindset. It's well worth doing though.

That is the only method, i just vanished. Why explain anything to people who just dont appreciate your time and efforts. I work, exercise (finally got a trainer and a nutritionist, now i can afford one), sleep and watch netflix. Lol.

Dont get me wrong, i meet a lot of good people in my day to day interactions but i dont care to get close to people at this moment cause i know what i need to accomplish.

Good that you cut negative ass people off.
 
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