My home came with all the upgrades. My flooring downstairs was an upgrade as well as the addition of a culinary kitchen(separate from the main kitchen).
The only incentive given to me was the choice of 5K off the price of the home and keep blinds throughout the home OR get plantation shutters(pay $900 extra) throughout the house and get washer dryer(front loading). I chose the latter.
As for you, I don't know what you value as a priority, but whatever you get, be sure to get whatever you can afford. I know that flooring will add value to a home, depending on what type of flooring you have. Same goes with having shutters as opposed to blinds. Obviously, the more upgrades, the more value, but it will cost you.