Coli Ladies: Do You Mess With Thug/Swag/Criminal Nikkas As Substitute For A Lack Of A Father?

[Medicate]

Simple Question. I don't want none of you simp nikkas coming in here with that BS. I'm trying to decipher why these Sisters out here always messing with Thugs and Criminals or nikkas that just will knock em upside the head,stick you with kids you can't handle on your own,but pass up bros who actually care something about Black Women and have something going for themselves, but then these nikkas are called Squares and laughed at, then yall wonder why these bitter azz nikkas end up with cacs, then you complaining.

What is the intrigue with Hard nikkas or Thugs. Is this a "fatherless" issue.

I've always contended that females that mess with so called "bad boys" usually are trying to substitute for either the lack of an actual "FATHER" in the home or the lack of a stable and caring "FATHER". They substitute a nikka yelling and screaming at them as somehow "manly" or a nikka that disrespects them and call you B's and H's as a "Strong" man. Or a nikka that beats your azz as a man that is holding down the fort and doing what your father should've

Yea I went there..........

 

[sanityovar8ted]

.................NO!

 

[Medicate]

.................NO!

So if a nikka is talkin to you like shyt, you ain't the type that start gigglin and laughin it off? Or is you the one that tell that nikka to kick rocks? Keep it real. I done seen hella amount of chicks that have a nikka spittin that new age game to em, knowing this nikka ain't about nothin, yet they lap it up like praise. Then they wonder why years later they a baby mama.

 

[sanityovar8ted]

So if a nikka is talkin to you like shyt, you ain't the type that start gigglin and laughin it off? Or is you the one that tell that nikka to kick rocks? Keep it real. I done seen hella amount of chicks that have a nikka spittin that new age game to em, knowing this nikka ain't about nothin, yet they lap it up like praise. Then they wonder why years later they a baby mama.

Ive messed with those types before but it wasnt due to the lack of a father.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Thread title might as well have been "Women come into this thread so we can sterotype and bash you"

O YEA, I'M

 

[The5thLetter]

Troll better

 

[illadope]

Most girls that I know that are like this appreciate the fact they get put in charge....& deal with all the other shyt afterwards. Then once they had like 5-6 kids they realize they shouldnt do that anymore.

 

[Elle Driver]

Yes.

 

[Medulla Oblongata]

Ah, yes...

 

[Yup]

No.

 

[OatmealCreamPie]

Funny how the race of men who are so obsessed with their imaginary belief that BW like thugs are the ones looked at as the ultimate thugs in America.

BM to BW- "You BW love thugs"

White people to BM - "You ARE the thugs"

 

[Raava]

y'all don't even try

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Funny how the race of men who are so obsessed with their imaginary belief that BW like thugs are the ones looked at as the ultimate thugs in America.

BM to BW- "You BW love thugs"

White people to BM - "You ARE the thugs"

Handful of posters on the Coli = the whole black race

U are on the list too, Spencer.

 

[WeDemBoyz]

Your premise is flawed Nikka. It shouldn't be surprising when you see how nikkas are living out here. "Dont settle for less" doesn't apply to the hood.

 

[HoustonHeat]

Who do you all keep addressing your threads to?
Most of us here don't have any kids and don't date thugs.

I think you are trying to get your aggression out about your past choices in women, but they don't post here Breh.