Coli relationship experts...How long after dating did you move in together?

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

The lease on my girl’s apartment is up in August. By that point, we will have been together 8 months.

Do I make her sign another year lease, or invite her to live here? We’re pretty much back and forth between each other’s places anyway.

 

[Gold]

Hahahahahahahahahahaha

 

[Obreh Winfrey]

Do you actually want her to live there? If there are any doubts, then no, let her sign another lease. If you're resorting to asking The Coli, it already sounds like you don't really want her living there and just want somebody else to echo it back to you.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

Do you actually want her to live there? If there are any doubts, then no, let her sign another lease. If you're resorting to asking The Coli, it already sounds like you don't really want her living there and just want somebody else to echo it back to you.

It’s coming up on 5 months, so right now, no, even though we go back and forth between each other’s places anyway. We’ve only spent 5 nights apart in the last month.

I want her living here, just not right now, and she brought up looking for a new place that is closer. But after 8 months, I’ll probably be ready, but I don’t want to tell her yes or no, and she doesn’t look for a new place, or she looks, puts the deposit down, and I change my mind and want her to move in. But I can see proposing next spring, and I don’t want her wasting money on rent we can use towards others things together.

 

[the bossman]

The lease on my girl’s apartment is up in August. By that point, we will have been together 8 months.

Do I make her sign another year lease, or invite her to live here? We’re pretty much back and forth between each other’s places anyway.

Are you planning on marrying this woman?

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

Are you planning on marrying this woman?

Yes



But it’s only been 5 months, so right now no, and no I’m not looking at rings yet.

 

[fact]

The lease on my girl’s apartment is up in August. By that point, we will have been together 8 months.

Do I make her sign another year lease, or invite her to live here? We’re pretty much back and forth between each other’s places anyway.

This was probably around the timeline that I moved my wife in

 

[2 one 3]

Keep your own place / space

 

[Vilify]

Why do you want to live with her so soon?

 

[DreadBrown]

My bro if you don’t have any serious future plans with her don’t move in with her

You’ll just be wasting time and energy

 

[Splash]

We was livin together after like a month
Married coming up to 3 years now

If you already got a spot tell her to chip in on the rent, if it goes sideways she just go get a new place

You gotta collect that money tho
Seriously

 

[International Playa]

Is she willing to split bills?

I see you said you serious with your lady. Moving in together is another way to see if you are really compatible.

Proceed with caution, you going to have lil fights getting used to being each others spaces

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

6 months to a year, especially if you see each other frequently

 

[Crude]

If you don’t see yourself seriously considering marrying her or the trajectory of y’all’s relationship moving in that direction soon I’d caution against it.

Having in house p*ssy is an exhilarating experience, but you also see the good, bad, and the ugly of the person you are dealing with daily.

If there are any type of problems or apprehension there they will eventually show up in some way or another. You are already expressing reservations about doing it before it happens and 5 months on knowing someone is not a very long time. Y’all still in the honeymoon phase.

If things start going sour and she has no other place to go outside of the place you and her share then things could get messy. I’ve been there done that. Loved having a big ole phat azz to wake up to and sex in the middle of the night, but after about a year or so when I was ready to move on and I knew she wasn’t the “one” for me it made for a hard and complex break up sharing living quarters. The lease was in my name, so I just ended up not renewing it. She went and got roommate and moved into another spot.

 

[Obreh Winfrey]

It’s coming up on 5 months, so right now, no, even though we go back and forth between each other’s places anyway. We’ve only spent 5 nights apart in the last month.

I want her living here, just not right now, and she brought up looking for a new place that is closer. But after 8 months, I’ll probably be ready, but I don’t want to tell her yes or no, and she doesn’t look for a new place, or she looks, puts the deposit down, and I change my mind and want her to move in. But I can see proposing next spring, and I don’t want her wasting money on rent we can use towards others things together.

Have you told her that yet? Obviously not the proposing part, but that you want here there just not yet? Is she set on leaving her place and finding another? Can she sit on it until 1 or 2 months out and then start looking?