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You're out and you see an attractive woman....do you approach her and start a conversation?


Gq

Disciplined where? Money? Health? Etc.?

Nope.
I dont cold approach.
Now i do speak to womenz sometimes when i have a reason to but i dont just walk up to a random chick and talk out the blue.

For example, yesterday i went in thr gas station and the cashier looked kinda stacked. After i paid for gas and was walking out she was like "ughhhhhhh jesus" im like WHAT YOU HAVING CHURCH SERVICE BACK THERE? :troll: she says IM READY TO SIT DOWNNNNN.

I got back in the car cuz my momma and grandma was waiting on me. (They picked me up from outta state cuz i was moving back home)
 

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Nope.
I dont cold approach.
Now i do speak to womenz sometimes when i have a reason to but i dont just walk up to a random chick and talk out the blue.

For example, yesterday i went in thr gas station and the cashier looked kinda stacked. After i paid for gas and was walking out she was like "ughhhhhhh jesus" im like WHAT YOU HAVING CHURCH SERVICE BACK THERE? :troll: she says IM READY TO SIT DOWNNNNN.

I got back in the car cuz my momma and grandma was waiting on me. (They picked me up from outta state cuz i was moving back home)

Okay well that's good. You can use that same logic when "approaching" women. It doesn't have to be on some old, "Yo wassup...what's your name and number" shyt. MAKE conversation. If you had time to, that comment you made to the cashier could have spawned a whole conversation. "Oh you're tired huh?" "What..no break today?" then she probably would have went on to tell you how she hates her job and blah blah blah and 5 to 10 minutes later you are walking out with her phone number so that y'all can chat more later. You have to MAKE conversation.
 

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Okay well that's good. You can use that same logic when "approaching" women. It doesn't have to be on some old, "Yo wassup...what's your name and number" shyt. MAKE conversation. If you had time to, that comment you made to the cashier could have spawned a whole conversation. "Oh you're tired huh?" "What..no break today?" then she probably would have went on to tell you how she hates her job and blah blah blah and 5 to 10 minutes later you are walking out with her phone number so that y'all can chat more later. You have to MAKE conversation.

That's what i normally do. Make conversation .
I just never ask for the number.
I dont expect to get it.
I just talk to talk

:yeshrug:
 

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Well there lies the problem...

Take that next step. You can tell by how shorty is conversing with you if she is ACTUALLY interested in talking or just trying to be polite.

.....and if she declines for whatever reason (not interested, has a boyfriend) what's the worst that could happen?

Its better than wondering "what if?" I know its easier said than done but shyt...pressure makes diamonds. You have to rip the band aid off and get to it or you may never get what you want.
 

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Pick something that you know she'll like and be able to unwind to.

And you may be right but shyt if it ain't anything serious then it should roll right off her tounge.
I did what you said, only thing that rolled off her tongue was profanity.:mjcry:

"why didn't you believe me when I said it was nothing":mjcry:

Guess lotion will suffice for tonight:mjcry:
 

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:yeshrug:

I did what you said, only thing that rolled off her tongue was profanity.:mjcry:

"why didn't you believe me when I said it was nothing":mjcry:

Guess lotion will suffice for tonight:mjcry:

:dead:

Don't sue, Bro!!! This advice isn't guaranteed.

I'll buy you a bottle of vaseline.
 
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