Couples Therapy: Hispanic wife says she can't hold space for black husband's racial issues smh

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  1. Dynamite James

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    Cliffs:
    The husband talks about how he is uncomfortable going to fancy restaurants because, of course as a black man, he is treated "really badly"
    The wife says he just needs to change his facial expressions and appear more approachable and pleasant
    The husband then compares the racial hostility that he deals with to her being catcalled and harassed as a woman
    The husband tries to get her to understand yet, she's not trying to empathize or even at the least approach the topic with sensitivity
    The wife then says "be the only black person in a space proudly and no one cares that your black"
    The husband says that he would at least "like to go to more welcoming places to spend his money"
    The wife doesn't want to hear it and says "I don't want to go to cheap dive bars"
    The therapist is handling this with some sensitivity and caution

    The clip cuts off but in the full episode:
    The husband asks the wife how does she identify
    The wife says "Puerto Rican" (ya'll know on some "I no black shyt" lol)
    The wife says "I hate to sound insensitive but, I can't hold space for everyone's issues because I got my own stuff"
    The therapist asks him "how he feels about having a white therapist?"
    Then both the therapist and wife look at him as his face drop and he became speechless then says it's like the movie "Get Out"
    And they all laugh
     
  2. TheManFromVA

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    Going to a white therapist was mistake #1
     
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    :francis: Nah the wife needs to go, how she gonna be Puerto Rican but NOT act like racism exists... the man is fukking woke to all the bullshyt going on around him he aint dumb...He should divorce her cause she aint gonna understand...:francis:
     
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    Pathetic.
     
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    That 'People of Color' phrase is sickening.

    He needs a Black woman, not some wannabe honky wench covered in Adobo.​
     
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    Wifing a woman who doesn’t understand your plight & minimizes your issues was mistake #2

    She’s thinks she’s above the issues of blackness when she looks pretty black herself.
     
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    Hispanic wife? She damn near would pass as black at a glance
     
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    He married this dumb bytch
    He knew she wasn’t shyt in the beginning
    Hoes don’t change they just get comfortable :yeshrug:
     
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    Breh needs to put his foot down and say no I’m not going to xyz because it’s racist end of story
    How he married her is beyond my understanding because these problems are rooted out early in relationships

    also is today get married brehs day? we have 3 threads related to it
     
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    He needs to choose better. Don't date a woman without having this convo first.
     
  12. humminbird

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    No she is way out of pocket
    How did you get this far breh :mindblown:
     
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    Pre-GMB Therapy.
     
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    She needs a wake up shout to the ear
    Unreal
     

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