Dam even women are out here saying having children lowers they value

[Savvir]

I'm 31, no kids and in a relationship. If it doesn't work out, I may have to make some adjustments.

If I meet a single woman in her 30's who isn't a business owner or high in the corporate ladder I would not take them serious.

Ambition and success are the only things that make dealing with their "mileage" bearable

 

[UserNameless]

Lol ya and I suppose because I live in NYC. For some reason, I always got the impression that a lot of the Coli lived in large, urban areas --- where a lot of professionals tend to focus on their career and delay having children.

Negro what made you think that? ... you’re on here enough to see the threads on here and ignant a$$ replies when it comes to major US metros . DC , Atlanta , NYC, Chicago , Charlotte probably have the most representation on here and are pretty deep (Alotta inactive users these days tho ) , but those specific sample sizes arent anywhere indicative of thecoli as a whole .

There’s no way you can tell me you didn’t know that

 

[seabreeze80]

When I see a BD I see a man who has to split his time, money & energy into 2 separate households. I also see baby momma drama. I don't find it attractive but a lot of people have low standards with their definition of security and don't understand wealth create so I don't doubt it. I would think a single father or BD would only be advantageous to a single mom or BM.

Dealing with baby mama and baby daddy drama is the woat.

 

[NaijaProdigy Redux]

Negro what made you think that? ... you’re on here enough to see the threads on here and ignant a$$ replies when it comes to major US metros . DC , Atlanta , NYC, Chicago , Charlotte probably have the most representation on here and are pretty deep (Alotta inactive users these days tho ) , but those specific sample sizes arent anywhere indicative of thecoli as a whole .

There’s no way you can tell me you didn’t know that

I don't know man....you raise a good point...maybe it's confirmation bias

 

[HARLEM AL]

With all due respect, this is a part of the problem.

The “system” most at blame for young women having children they aren’t ready for is irresponsibility with their own reproductive systems, not some social chit outside of them.

PREACH

 

[getmoney310cpt]

Some single Moms had all that to begin with because they were in a normal relationship/marriage but it just fell apart..

Lol where

 

[tater]

If I meet a single woman in her 30's who isn't a business owner or high in the corporate ladder I would not take them serious.

Ambition and success are the only things that make dealing with their "mileage" bearable

Different strokes...

 

[Doobie Doo]

Once you get to a certain age you should expect every body you meet to have a child.. nikkas be 35 expecting to find a dime with no kids and shyt. Thats not realistic in todays society

This is where you yung nikkas lose me cuz ya'll must fukk with the same type of bytches so they all got the same basic ass stats. Me and my girl just broke up two weeks ago and she was childless. I already been on 2 dates in the past week with 2 different childless women. All in their early 30s, all attractive (not dimes but none below 6) not fat. I just turned 40 two weeks ago and have not been in a casual or serious relationship with a single mother since I was 28. This is well over 12+ women I fukked with with in 10 years with no children, all black women. I legit be wondering what type of women ya'll go for cuz I got a career but all these women I fukk with have careers too.

 

[Koli_Kat]

People with kids should just date each other

 

[Savvir]

Different strokes...

what kind of 30+ women you fukk wit?

 

[tater]

what kind of 30+ women you fukk wit?

I'm the 31 year old woman

 

[pickles]

This thread is fukken embarrassing.

Someone here said that single moms usually have their "shyt together". Well I fukken hope so, because children are fukken expensive.

Never ever understand the appeal of the single mother. At a certain point she is going to be talking about the kid and all the "special" things the kid is doing. Like the first shyt in the toilet or whatever "firsts" the kid is having. Yuck.

I even hate it when the women at work talk about their children. I don't give a shyt about your kids. WTF?

 

[I'm Blackman]

Single parents of the Coli coming together like Voltron to straight up lie dapping each other up about how being a single parent is somehow attractive or a benefit when it comes to dating

 

[Max.]

exactly.. only on the internet you hear these nikkas talking about it’s easy to find a woman without a kid, but they never follow that shyt up with do the woman without a kid wants you and 80% of the time it’s not especially under 30

the last 3 weeks I run into about 8 chicks over 30 and 6 has kids

it’s hard to find the BLACK ones u really dig who doesn’t have kids

My girl black,great career,28 and no kids

Im lucky

 

[Voice of Reason]

If you are a man from 30-35 you need to compete with dudes in their mid/late 20s for women in their age group.



You can't afford to be and broke