As long as you have the most high, you don't need anybodys support. Everybody falls short along the way.
The people who's eyes were opened to something better never really lose sight of that. Even if they revert. You just have to keep your heart in the right place.... you can't take any of these materials with you when you die no matter the situation.
I know this isn't an acceptable and/or p.c answer for everybody though so I'll spoiler it, but this life is a test, and passing it isn't determined by how long you live or personal accomplishments. Sometimes these peoples deaths are needed for great change to occur and they've already done what they needed to make it to paradise. That's not for me to judge.
It's terrible, but it's only half the story when you see a grave as the end.
I think this song kind of sums up what some of my missed points are too.