no sarcasm here.....serious question.
so you're currently on the hook for 3-4 guys.....do you expect all of them to pay everytime?
And also, what's the endgame for you? At some point TO ME as a man, it's like after the 3rd or so date, if I'm paying for stuff.....I'm POSSIBLY being played. You're still hanging out with 3 other guys. I don't know what you're doing with them....
I'm not saying we should be exclusive after 3 dates....but it does seem like a possible waste of my time and money and possibly being played.