Dating as a 30+ yr old man

[Micky Mikey]

This.

You are at your ho getting prime at 30

By that time you should have
1. A career
2. Good amounts of expendable income and be out of debt
3. In shape
4. Not look too young but also not look too old aka you getting chose by 20 year olds and 40 year olds

You can fukk 20 year olds easily
This is why it pays to not get married early and not have kids early

OP exposing himself

I am in shape with a great career. I am still paying off student loan debt but what millennial isnt. I think the problem is that I am not really out there like that. I work from home most days and my office has very few women. The women that are in there have all hit on me at some point but i wont jeapardize my job.
i am 100% sure my issue is location

 

[Phitz]

Every breh I know who is in his early 30s and in shape is getting more attention and dates than he got in his 20s.

 

[13473]

As a 30 year-old I try and date women from 28-32. Only issue is a lot of these women are on the clock and ready to get married and have kids asap.

My parents went through a nasty divorce and I need to be with a chick for at least 3-5 years to make sure its right.

is there a reason you're dating that age bracket ? it sounds like you'd be better off with younger women.

 

[brickfare]

For my guys who are 30+ do you find it is easier to date women than it was in your 20s? I am 31 and it finally dawned on me that I am getting old. Most of the women I encounter on a daily basis are in their early to mid 20s ( I live in a college town) . I don't get as many smiles and flirting as I did when I was a younger man. And it makes sense. I am an old man in their eyes. Dont get me wrong I still get my fair share of play.

I dont really encounter too many woman in my age bracket. I feel like all of them have either moved out of state to ome of the major cities or are married (or single) with kids.

What has been your experience? Do you date women also in their 30s or do you date younger?

I'm 36, got out of a 4+ year relationship in January

don't really even care to date, I don't like randoms and don't want to be bothered with putting in the work with someone new

also, my ex pretty much knows every black woman worth a damn here from the ages of 30-40 so I'd prefer not to date within my city, plus I love out of town p*ssy

so I've just been going back and hooking up with gals from social media (twitter) that I've wanted to bone for a minute

flew up smashed a bad lil Jamaican 28 year old Ivy League grad in march

a couple of weeks ago I had another 32 year old gal fly down and come stay with me for a few days, she pretty much came for the d, lol

never married, never engaged, no kids, late bloomer, yada yada

 

[Fatboi1]

I have a receding hair line

Close thread

 

[Da King]

A 30 year old man should eat from 21-45 bracket, easy.

OP is

This, OP lying about getting play

 

[old pig]

You have low confidence. Take a shower, buy some nice cologne (not Axe Body Spray), get a haircut, and buy age appropriate clothes.

You should not have issues with booking 20 year olds if you are trying.

how you gonna low key say the man ‘stink’ in his own thread LOL??




















never mind me...low level instigating

 

[Negus in Detroit]

I’m not a lawyer but I have friends in that field.

Simply put, any man in that field of work will have women lining up. I work in finance but we roll in the same circles. If you’re a black man with no kids? Shiiiit. It’s like having the cheat code.

One of my good friends is a doctor but he grew up in the hood like me. I’m not even exaggerating... when women find out he’s a doctor, they’re practically begging to marry him. To get a breh from the hood who’s a doctor? That’s Tupac in Scrubs.

But none of us feel the urge to settle down when women from 20-45 are all choosing us. It’s messed up but why would we when we have our pick of the bunch?

This right here many times when talking to women and their probing me with a million questions about myself and they find out I got my shyt together and not on some dumb hood shyt they go from being extremely impressed to basically falling in love especially when they find out I don’t have any kids their reactions are to “wow you’re a great catch”

 

[Bart simpson]

Tupac in Scrubs

 

[Ozymandeas]

I’m not a lawyer but I have friends in that field.

Simply put, any man in that field of work will have women lining up. I work in finance but we roll in the same circles. If you’re a black man with no kids? Shiiiit. It’s like having the cheat code.

One of my good friends is a doctor but he grew up in the hood like me. I’m not even exaggerating... when women find out he’s a doctor, they’re practically begging to marry him. To get a breh from the hood who’s a doctor? That’s Tupac in Scrubs.

But none of us feel the urge to settle down when women from 20-45 are all choosing us. It’s messed up but why would we when we have our pick of the bunch?

If you're in your 30s, no kids, making half decent money, and half handsome, you will have your choice of women.

But the reason for that is all these broads are trying to find a dude to marry them.

A Doctor would be experiencing this on a scale of 20, probably. There's no such thing as an ugly doctor

With that said, I know I have to settle down in the near future. You're expected to after a certain point in corporate america .