Dating black women

[Remote]

I've seen a few posts on here from people who say they won't date black women. Or that black women are "un-dateable"

What makes you say that, exactly?
Are you basing that off generalities and media perception?
Have you had a bad experience? What happened?

I've dated 3 black women and while the relationships didn't work out, they were all sweet, positive women. None of them lived up to this "ratchet", "ghetto" or "difficult" label that many of you seem to put on them.

Did I just get lucky in my experiences?
Seems like some of you are hurt about something.

 

[godkiller]

Are you even black, Raul?

Why is this an issue you need to worry about?

 

[Remote]

Are you even black, Raul?

Why is this an issue you need to think about?

I'm hispanic.
I am free to think and discuss what I please, friend.

 

[godkiller]

I'm hispanic.
I am free to think and discuss what I please, friend.

So the answer is no, you aren't black. And my questioning your motives isn't to say you can't discuss what you want. I'm just wondering why this issue concerns you; why you want nikkas to answer obvious questions; and what you think is going to happen with this thread.

 

[Remote]

So the answer is no, you aren't black. And my questioning your motives isn't to say you can't discuss what you want. I'm just wondering why this issue concerns you; why you want nikkas to ask dumb questions; and what you think is going to happen with this thread. Blacks don't sit thinking about Messicans I can tell you that.

Do I have to be black to ask why some black men won't date black women?

 

[MikelArteta]

I've seen a few posts on here from people who say they won't date black women. Or that black women are "un-dateable"

The majority of black men date and will marry a black woman

What makes you say that, exactly?
Are you basing that off generalities and media perception?
Have you had a bad experience? What happened?

Most people on this site are just trolling with their pawg this/pawg that

I've dated 3 black women and while the relationships didn't work out, they were all sweet, positive women. None of them lived up to this "ratchet", "ghetto" or "difficult" label that many of you seem to put on them.

Did I just get lucky in my experiences?
Seems like some of you are hurt about something.

Nah most black women will fit into your category, however black people both male and female are judged by stereotypes. Example I'm a black male, people assume I listen to rap, smoke weed, aggressive, a player etc. because that's what the media feeds you. The same how they will feed you how black women are ghetto, ratchet, loud, overweight, and have a attitude problem

 

[mtu wa chuma]

Another boring tediuos new poster. fukk off

 

[Remote]

Another boring tediuos new poster. fukk off

Boring and tedious.
Not new.

 

[Akata Man Bromo]

Listen man, when dating most women you're going to have problems and disagreements. One of the main problems is that WE (black ppl) air our shyt the fukk out. I remember in the 90's to like 2004 there were all types of talk shows discussing our issues! Grown ass men on Jenny Jones, Rikki Lake, and Jerry Springer talking about why they dont date sisters and some white talk show host is sitting up there trying to "bring us together" Ppl of other races have issues with their women too. Ask them and they will tell you... But they will NEVER put their women on front street like that.... Now us (black males) are now the ones being put out there on front street by our women...Its a sad cycle man

 

[godkiller]

Do I have to be black to ask why some black men won't date black women?

No, I just notice you have a fascination with black people and black issues which borders on the creepy.

 

[Remote]

No, I just notice you have a fascination with black people and black issues bordering on the creepy.

Fascination? I suppose. Sure. As a minority, I can relate to a few things on some level, even if it's not the same.

Do I have an obsession about it? No.
If that's creepy to you, um, deal with it?

 

[Auger]

No, I just notice you have a fascination with black people and black issues which borders on the creepy.

Really!

Always wanted to know why black people act a certain way? Why not sign up on a primarily black message board and ask away.

 

[Remote]

Really!

Always wanted to know why black people act a certain way? Why not sign up on a primarily black message board and ask away.

 

[Killer Instinct]

Stop attributing thecoli.com to reality. The vast majority of African Americans date and marry black. Just like every other race. Two posters proclaiming black women as "undateable " does not warrant a case study.

 

[Remote]

I'm sensing that some people are trying to dictate which threads can be made, and who can make them.

I didn't realize The Coli had a bunch of Nazis on patrol