Dating or Marrying A Woman Who Makes More Who Pays All The Bills : LEVEL UP

[gonnagetit]

The more and more I get older I start to peep out certain things. With the divorce rates as high as they ever been this whole dating and marriage game is starting to look suspect. Men are taught to be the providers of the relationship financially only to most likely get the short end of the stick in the end. In this age with the so called "Independent Woman" I think men should flip the script on these women. Why ? Think about it why date a woman with uncertainty that she only view the man as a "check". In the social media society thats what most women view men as a "check". Why not view women as a "check" ? I think as men the traditional way of dating and marriage should be changed in this feminist me too era bs society. Its time to flip the script make her show you that she really wants to be with you. If a woman is spending money on you and taking care of you you can be confident that she values you. Now I know what fellas gonna say oh you as a man wont be in control. Well I think you would still be in control you can make up in other aspects of the relationship.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

I have a family member whose wife makes more. EVERY single argument they have, she mentions she doesn't need him, and she can take care of the house and kids without him. And they met in COLLEGE. He makes good money too, just not on her level. She's a doctor.

 

[Turk]

I have a family member whose wife makes more. EVERY single argument they have, she mentions she doesn't need him, and she can take care of the house and kids without him. And they met in COLLEGE. He makes good money too, just not on her level. She's a doctor.

Idk how Breh puts up with that shyt. I couldn't and wouldn't.

 

[DrunkerThanAMotherfucker]

I have a family member whose wife makes more. EVERY single argument they have, she mentions she doesn't need him, and she can take care of the house and kids without him. And they met in COLLEGE. He makes good money too, just not on her level. She's a doctor.

Considering she is a doctor, I am going to go ahead and say she doesn't have time to juggle all that. I'm sure it's heat of the moment bursts, but putting her man down like that is pretty ridiculous.

 

[gonnagetit]

I have a family member whose wife makes more. EVERY single argument they have, she mentions she doesn't need him, and she can take care of the house and kids without him. And they met in COLLEGE. He makes good money too, just not on her level. She's a doctor.

Thats cool she saying all that but she still with him. Nevertheless if she divorces he can collect alimony perhaps.

 

[DrunkerThanAMotherfucker]

The more and more I get older I start to peep out certain things. With the divorce rates as high as they ever been this whole dating and marriage game is starting to look suspect. Men are taught to be the providers of the relationship financially only to most likely get the short end of the stick in the end. In this age with the so called "Independent Woman" I think men should flip the script on these women. Why ? Think about it why date a woman with uncertainty that she only view the man as a "check". In the social media society thats what most women view men as a "check". Why not view women as a "check" ? I think as men the traditional way of dating and marriage should be changed in this feminist me too era bs society. Its time to flip the script make her show you that she really wants to be with you. If a woman is spending money on you and taking care of you you can be confident that she values you. Now I know what fellas gonna say oh you as a man wont be in control. Well I think you would still be in control you can make up in other aspects of the relationship.

I'd say that's a good sign. The thing is most educated, well-to-do women are extremely choosey. Due to professional day-to-day demands, they do not have time to play games. They can read through your bullshyt easily. They want someone that is near or on their level and not a bum. The biggest value you can provide to these types is physical and mental stimulation. All women crave a man that makes them feel safe, comfortable, and sexually fulfilled. The well-to-do types also want a man that is on a similar wavelength in terms of worldview/lifestyle and can have intelligent, thought-provoking conversation.

 

[DivaForever]

If i had money like that id have no problem dating below my financial level.. at least hes easier to control

they always clown nick cannon about how his ex wife wore the pants on wild n out lol

 

[Balla]

Lol. Never commit to a chick with more bread than you.

If i had money like that id have no problem dating below my financial level.. at least hes easier to control

they always clown nick cannon about how his ex wife wore the pants on wild n out lol

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

Idk how Breh puts up with that shyt. I couldn't and wouldn't.

Considering she is a doctor, I am going to go ahead and say she doesn't have time to juggle all that. I'm sure it's heat of the moment bursts, but putting her man down like that is pretty ridiculous.

Thats cool she saying all that but she still with him. Nevertheless if she divorces he can collect alimony perhaps.

She also throws it in his face that she paid off her student loans, and he hasn't. He has a Master's.

 

[Balla]

Why won't he leave her? They're both black I'm guessing

Dude can find a chick that makes OK money and not deal with a headache.

Wouldn't be me, I would break that woman down with all of the flaws she's told me about, I would break that bytch down.

She also throws it in his face that she paid off her student loans, and he hasn't. He has a Master's.

 

[gonnagetit]

Lol. Never commit to a chick with more bread than you.

Thats nonsense. At least a man can most definitely know thats the woman is with you because she loves you. If its the other way around Im not for sure if too many men would be confident knowing the woman they laid up with only is with them because of the "check".

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

@Richard Davis have you ever been in a relationship?

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

No woman is going to pay your bills without resenting you.

 

[Balla]

Dude, did you just not read the chick I quoted?

She said she would date a dude with less money because she can have control over him.

You got a chick spending money on you, but you have a chick that will talk down on you and see you as less than her.

fukkin with a chick with more bread is one thing, but don't be in a relationship where she talks down on you.

Thats nonsense. At least a man can most definitely know thats the woman is with you because she loves you. If its the other way around Im not for sure if too many men would be confident knowing the woman they laid up with only is with them because of the "check".

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

Why won't he leave her? They're both black I'm guessing

Dude can find a chick that makes OK money and not deal with a headache.

Wouldn't be me, I would break that woman down with all of the flaws she's told me about, I would break that bytch down.

He doesn't want the kids to live in a broken home. It's not like they fight all the time, BUT when they do, she brings this up.