Dating someone who makes no effort to go the gym or eat better; how long do you give them until you move on

[BrothaZay]

If they’re overweight

Not depressed

No health issues

You go to the gym and typically watch what you eat

Yall talk about dieting and them getting into working out they express they plan to change the lifestyle

You tell them they don’t have to do much. Just cut one thing out their diet and go for a walk 3 times a week.
They can’t do that

What would you do

 

[Phitz]

If I was out there I would find somebody already doing what Im doing or like to do. I dont want them doing it to attract me becuase they might quit once I give them a shot. That's kind of cat fishing if somebody just started.. I had a debate with a female friend about this. It wasn't about the gym but more about outdoors activity and some women just joining an activity they may not like just to get a guy