David Justice on Halle Berry "She don't cook, don't clean, don't really seem like motherly. 'Is This the Woman I Want to Have Kids with?"

[Dr. Narcisse]

"My knowledge and my understanding, my wisdom around relationships just wasn't vast," he said. "So, I'm looking at my mom — and I'm a Midwest guy. So, in my mind, I'm thinking a wife at that time should cook, clean, [be] traditional, you know?"

"Then I'm thinking, 'OK, if we have kids, is this the woman I want to have kids with and build a family with?' " Justice continued. "At that time, as a young guy — she don't cook, don't clean, don't really seem like motherly, and then we start having issues."

"She asked me to marry her after knowing me for five months," Justice said, recounting the early days of their relationship, soon after they met in May 1992. "I said OK, because I couldn't say no. Who's going to say no at that time?"

"I don't know if my heart was really into it, but I didn't want to make her feel bad and say no, you know, or [if] I was just in the moment," he added.

"We spent a lot of time apart because she was doing movies in this country, that country. And we honestly probably could have made it if I knew about therapy. If we knew about therapy, we probably could have made it," he said.

"We never had any major issues like that," the father-of-three added. "It's just... because I was young and had only been in one real relationship before her."

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[CreepyMcCreeperson]

Once you reach a certain income level, a woman cooking and cleaning doesn’t matter. And if she had a full time career too, she shouldn’t have to do all the housework on her own. He wanted a woman without a career. That’s fine, but there’s no 50/50 when she doesn’t work. Then the WAGS get called golddiggers.

 

[Yinny]

Wild how he sums up being a good mom to doing chores like so many people.

Meals, I mean I guess but does anyone fondly look back at how their mom kept their laundry folded and kitchen sink empty as how you know she loves you?

 

[FaTaL]

"My knowledge and my understanding, my wisdom around relationships just wasn't vast," he said. "So, I'm looking at my mom — and I'm a Midwest guy. So, in my mind, I'm thinking a wife at that time should cook, clean, [be] traditional, you know?"

"Then I'm thinking, 'OK, if we have kids, is this the woman I want to have kids with and build a family with?' " Justice continued. "At that time, as a young guy — she don't cook, don't clean, don't really seem like motherly, and then we start having issues."

"She asked me to marry her after knowing me for five months," Justice said, recounting the early days of their relationship, soon after they met in May 1992. "I said OK, because I couldn't say no. Who's going to say no at that time?"

"I don't know if my heart was really into it, but I didn't want to make her feel bad and say no, you know, or [if] I was just in the moment," he added.

"We spent a lot of time apart because she was doing movies in this country, that country. And we honestly probably could have made it if I knew about therapy. If we knew about therapy, we probably could have made it," he said.

"We never had any major issues like that," the father-of-three added. "It's just... because I was young and had only been in one real relationship before her."

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code word

he couldnt control her

she made him do the chores

 

[daemonova]

Once you reach a certain income level, a woman cooking and cleaning doesn’t matter. And if she had a full time career too, she shouldn’t have to do all the housework on her own. He wanted a woman without a career. That’s fine, but there’s no 50/50 when she doesn’t work. Then the WAGS get called golddiggers.

I'm sure he making 5 figures in the Braves farm system in the late 80s. By the time, he was called up in 1990, he was making the vet minimum at the time of $275,000.

How much money did you figure he needed to make to not care about a wife cooking and cleaning.?

 

[Da King]

Yes, double standards exist, at the end of the day a man wants a good woman to raise the family

 

[Yagirlcheatinonus]

A woman that don’t cook, clean and do household things is useless. On the flip side a man that can’t change a tire, cook on the grill or fix things is useless as well.Men and women should both bring things to the table outside your career. If you don’t you two useless individuals together.

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

Wild to start talking about this now. I did Halley all the time but c'mon son.

 

[African Peasant]

If she does not cook

Kids need to eat food cooked by their mom

 

[Tupac in a Business Suit]

Breh, get a maid and cook. You’re rich. Plus if a woman is about her looks the last thing she’s trying to do is have your big headed baby fam.

plus not all women are fit to be cooks and mothers. Weird discussion to have.

 

[King Poetic]

She’s worthless outside of the bedroom

I feel Jennifer lopez is the same way

I don’t give a fukk if u got money, at least very so often cook ,clean up your dirty draws, wash out the shower, do something bytch

These late born boomers and gen X bytches was on another level in the 90s and why they online today at 45,50,60 years old looking for a man

 

[RhodyRum]

Breh, get a maid and cook. You’re rich. Plus if a woman is about her looks the last thing she’s trying to do is have your big headed baby fam.

plus not all women are fit to be cooks and mothers. Weird discussion to have.

Excellent point in the bold. Any time you hear a dude say that a woman should be this or that stereotypical role, you know you're dealing with a dude with limited, if not zero, sexual partners and who has zero idea on how to deal with women.

A man with experience knows not every woman is built for being a wife, mother, or keeper of a house. He also knows you can't take one who doesn't have those traits and work on her to reach some "Great Awakening" where she realizes her domestic potential.

It's telling that Justice only had one serious relationship before entering a marriage that was bound to go off the rails from the start. His expectations of her were only there due to a lack of life experience.

Yet you'll still get idiots here still barking this "all women should be domestics" nonsense incessantly while just proving to the rest of us who on this site gets no play from women in real life.

 

[Kasgoinjail]

If she does not cook

Kids need to eat food cooked by their mom

I agree
No matter how wealthy they are

 

[RhodyRum]

She’s worthless outside of the bedroom

I feel Jennifer lopez is the same way

I don’t give a fukk if u got money, at least very so often cook ,clean up your dirty draws, wash out the shower, do something bytch

These late born boomers and gen X bytches was on another in the 90s and why they online today at 45,50,60 years old looking for a man

So does the blame fall on a woman incapable of / unwilling to do domestic shıt, or the guys who've had ample time to see these flaws in her yet go ahead and get into serious relationships and marriages with these women hoping to turn them into a domestic?

If you know what you want in a woman, yet settle for something opposite of that, I'd say that makes him just as useless as her just off the strength of being a delusional idiot from the get-go.

 

[Umoja]

He sounds like a pig to be honest.