Dead Husband's Side Piece and Children: What would you do?

[MikelArteta]

Cheater is already dead in this case.
Although I just re-read the original post and it makes no mention of him asking me for forgiveness, no explanation of any kind.


hmmm... I guess I would be looking at the tax benefits for me and mine, go from there.

his cheating bloodline lives on

 

[Amy Traphouse]

She gets nothing from me but my husband's ashes cuz thats the cheapest way to dispose of his scum ass. I'm not obligated to her just because she fukked my husband and had his kids.

He obviously didn't plan to leave her anything since the insurance policy went to me.

I would do 2 $1k bank cds for the kids and they can't touch it until they are 25. Other than that, go get a job and figure it out.

 

[SouthernBelle]

1. I'm not even planning/attending his funeral. fukk him.
2. She had to have known he was married. fukk her, she won't ever see me again.
3. If he cared about them kids, he would have left them something. If she cared, she wouldn't have spent the last almost 10 years sitting on her butt expecting a married man to take care of them forever. They ain't getting nothing.

Lawd, this situation is a mess.

Token don't play.

 

[SouthernBelle]

I heard a story like this IRL... well its different.

An old coworkers father was cheating on her mom for years (she was in her late 30's). When he died his mistress and her mother showed up at the funeral and was trying to get money. They were crying saying they had no where to go and nothing Two grown women. He didn't leave them anything either and his wife was like kick rocks.

the audacity. They didn't have any money but they definitely had balls to show up at that man's funeral and ask his widow for money.

 

[EpicStoryTeller]

Women can be so spiteful

 

[blackdahlia]

M
How many men take care of seeds that don't belong to them
Or pay child support


Its funny how y'all are quick to say no to helping her

a stepfather situation is completely different. You went into that knowingly.

1. I'm not even planning/attending his funeral. fukk him.
2. She had to have known he was married. fukk her, she won't ever see me again.
3. If he cared about them kids, he would have left them something. If she cared, she wouldn't have spent the last almost 10 years sitting on her butt expecting a married man to take care of them forever. They ain't getting nothing.

Lawd, this situation is a mess.

Right. I ain't got ish for him buta hefty bag and lighter fluid.

Women can be so spiteful

It's not spiteful. It's real. And is messed up that people expect to do dirt and when it blows up in their face, the victim had to be the bigger person and fix it. fukk that. He obviously didn't care enough to make sure they were taken care of, the mom either. Neither do I. My job is to protect my family and my children. And that's what i will do.

 

[Raava]

the audacity. They didn't have any money but they definitely had balls to show up at that man's funeral and ask his widow for money.

the disrespect but you can't expect someone like that to have any decency in the first place.

 

[Dwolf]

1. I'm not even planning/attending his funeral. fukk him.
2. She had to have known he was married. fukk her, she won't ever see me again.
3. If he cared about them kids, he would have left them something. If she cared, she wouldn't have spent the last almost 10 years sitting on her butt expecting a married man to take care of them forever. They ain't getting nothing.

Lawd, this situation is a mess.

You will do great things in life.