murksiderock
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I may start a new series called "Debunking The Myth", I like the idea of it. But for now, let's debunk this myth that, if you sleep with someone at work, it goes all bad...
Let's start with, name an industry in America, and I can show you an industry where coworkers are fukking, and where superiors are smashing subordinates. In many, many cases, people aren't simply "smashing", they are openly dating or married at the workplace.
Military? Check. Retail? Check. Culinary/restaurants? Check. Education, Healthcare, politics and government? Check, check, check.
This myth is so archaic and mythological in the first place. Yes, its possible to get in trouble, but this is largely due to immaturity on the part of those involved. I can give my own testimony on women I worked with, who I slept with, and what came from it:
1. White Girl #1: "Sue"
I had a job for 5 months when I was in NY years ago, working in shipping and receiving at a screenprinting shop. Right when I started there, this white chick was on my ass. I was 22 at the time, she was 23. She had an infant daughter, and her (black) baby daddy was like a year into a 4 or 5 year bid at the time.
Chick had an interesting story, she was from Idaho, and met this guy on MySpace, who convinced her to move to Elmira, New York, so she did, got knocked up, then he got locked up.
Anyway she was choosing like a mf, and she became the first white woman I slept with. Honestly, dominated the fukk outta her, remember thinking her cum was different and didn't like it. She couldn't fukk worth a damn.
Anyway, I basically ghosted her after the one smash, and she let me know she was pissed about it, but she didn't trip too hard. She ended up quitting within a few weeks, and Elmira is tiny, ran into her in public and said hello like 5-6 weeks after, and she basically said fukk me. It was last time I saw her...
The caveat here, is she was pregnant, and a guy from work had told me she was pregnant. Now, there was a tall slim white boy (and a white chick) she was smashing, at the time of the one time I fukked, so ain't a high probability that the baby was mine. But mf's thought it was funny to make jokes about
I had sex with her in December 2011, last saw her around early March or so. Around mid fall of 2012, I was talking to a guy, who said she dropped the baby sometime in late summer/early fall, and that "that ain't no white man's baby". I always thought dude was trolling me but it was in the back of my mind that, that could potentially be my first child...
That child was born sometime between August and October of 2012, and would be about to turn 13 now. In order for it to be mine, it would have to have been a September or October baby. By the way, even if it "ain't no white man's baby", given the fact I knew a white man and white woman smashing Sue, it certainly is in the realm of possibility that she was sleeping with a different black man.
Anyway, wasn't no issue at work, other than her initially being frustrated that I ghosted her after one smash. No issue with our bosses or other employees or any extra shyt.
Last I heard anything about her, I asked somebody if they'd heard from her, around 2013 or '14, and they said they'd heard she moved and left Elmira, maybe back to Idaho where her family and support system was, maybe elsewhere, but they hadn't seen her in 7 or 8 months and for sure heard that she moved. I've long been outta contact with anyone I knew up there, and I wouldn't know how to find her. My family jokes that in some years I'll get some pop up visit or call or something from some white-mothered kid who says they're mine
2. Black girl #1: "Vina"
I knew Vina when I started into restaurant work, around 26. She was 20 and from Atlanta, and she had some of the best p*ssy I've ever had. First smashed around 3 days after I met her, and was fukking her for like 5 months. She had a lot of home issues, but man that p*ssy was wonderful, first chick I ever fukked, who I was like, "how this chick fukk so good being this young".
Anyway, when I broke it off with her, she lied and said she was pregnant with my children. She was going crazy, I never went for it, because that was the second time a girl lied about being pregnant to try to keep me around.
She did a little stalking at work for a few weeks, like randomly popping up at my car, or my crib, but she didn't cause a scene inside the workplace, I think in part because her stepdad was also a server there.
Last time I spoke to her, was some time in 2020, and she'd moved to Chicago and become a hairdresser, since the last time we spoke, and when The Pandemic hit she had no work and moved back home to Atlanta. I tried to spin on her and she wasn't having it
3. White Girl #2: "Sarah"
Was fukking around with her same time I was messing with Vina, several repeat smashes but only for around a month or two. She had good p*ssy but couldn't fukk, you'll notice this theme with white women lol...
I was 26 so she was 29, I believe. Had two children, by a black man. She was a little salty when I broke up with her, but she didn't create any drama at work. Haven't seen her since whenever we last smashed...
4. Black Girl #2: "Nella"
Messed with at same time as the previous two, but we only had sex once, at a hotel. And she had a very nice frame but couldn't take dikk. She was really cool to kick it with, and I really liked her. She liked me, but she was from St Louis, and she knew I was still on bullshyt, and I remember she told me she'd been around enough hood nikkas in her life, she wasn't interested in another one.
I was positive that I could change her mind once I got to smash, on some "wait to you see this dikk" type shyt. But to her credit, she knew I wasn't done yet and moved off of me. She was a year younger than me, I believe...
No issues at all at work, but we did have a date in Charlotte once, where she pulled over in the parking lot at Myers Park High School, and tripped on me, for messing with other women we worked with.
Let's start with, name an industry in America, and I can show you an industry where coworkers are fukking, and where superiors are smashing subordinates. In many, many cases, people aren't simply "smashing", they are openly dating or married at the workplace.
Military? Check. Retail? Check. Culinary/restaurants? Check. Education, Healthcare, politics and government? Check, check, check.
This myth is so archaic and mythological in the first place. Yes, its possible to get in trouble, but this is largely due to immaturity on the part of those involved. I can give my own testimony on women I worked with, who I slept with, and what came from it:
1. White Girl #1: "Sue"
I had a job for 5 months when I was in NY years ago, working in shipping and receiving at a screenprinting shop. Right when I started there, this white chick was on my ass. I was 22 at the time, she was 23. She had an infant daughter, and her (black) baby daddy was like a year into a 4 or 5 year bid at the time.
Chick had an interesting story, she was from Idaho, and met this guy on MySpace, who convinced her to move to Elmira, New York, so she did, got knocked up, then he got locked up.
Anyway she was choosing like a mf, and she became the first white woman I slept with. Honestly, dominated the fukk outta her, remember thinking her cum was different and didn't like it. She couldn't fukk worth a damn.
Anyway, I basically ghosted her after the one smash, and she let me know she was pissed about it, but she didn't trip too hard. She ended up quitting within a few weeks, and Elmira is tiny, ran into her in public and said hello like 5-6 weeks after, and she basically said fukk me. It was last time I saw her...
The caveat here, is she was pregnant, and a guy from work had told me she was pregnant. Now, there was a tall slim white boy (and a white chick) she was smashing, at the time of the one time I fukked, so ain't a high probability that the baby was mine. But mf's thought it was funny to make jokes about
I had sex with her in December 2011, last saw her around early March or so. Around mid fall of 2012, I was talking to a guy, who said she dropped the baby sometime in late summer/early fall, and that "that ain't no white man's baby". I always thought dude was trolling me but it was in the back of my mind that, that could potentially be my first child...
That child was born sometime between August and October of 2012, and would be about to turn 13 now. In order for it to be mine, it would have to have been a September or October baby. By the way, even if it "ain't no white man's baby", given the fact I knew a white man and white woman smashing Sue, it certainly is in the realm of possibility that she was sleeping with a different black man.
Anyway, wasn't no issue at work, other than her initially being frustrated that I ghosted her after one smash. No issue with our bosses or other employees or any extra shyt.
Last I heard anything about her, I asked somebody if they'd heard from her, around 2013 or '14, and they said they'd heard she moved and left Elmira, maybe back to Idaho where her family and support system was, maybe elsewhere, but they hadn't seen her in 7 or 8 months and for sure heard that she moved. I've long been outta contact with anyone I knew up there, and I wouldn't know how to find her. My family jokes that in some years I'll get some pop up visit or call or something from some white-mothered kid who says they're mine
2. Black girl #1: "Vina"
I knew Vina when I started into restaurant work, around 26. She was 20 and from Atlanta, and she had some of the best p*ssy I've ever had. First smashed around 3 days after I met her, and was fukking her for like 5 months. She had a lot of home issues, but man that p*ssy was wonderful, first chick I ever fukked, who I was like, "how this chick fukk so good being this young".
Anyway, when I broke it off with her, she lied and said she was pregnant with my children. She was going crazy, I never went for it, because that was the second time a girl lied about being pregnant to try to keep me around.
She did a little stalking at work for a few weeks, like randomly popping up at my car, or my crib, but she didn't cause a scene inside the workplace, I think in part because her stepdad was also a server there.
Last time I spoke to her, was some time in 2020, and she'd moved to Chicago and become a hairdresser, since the last time we spoke, and when The Pandemic hit she had no work and moved back home to Atlanta. I tried to spin on her and she wasn't having it
3. White Girl #2: "Sarah"
Was fukking around with her same time I was messing with Vina, several repeat smashes but only for around a month or two. She had good p*ssy but couldn't fukk, you'll notice this theme with white women lol...
I was 26 so she was 29, I believe. Had two children, by a black man. She was a little salty when I broke up with her, but she didn't create any drama at work. Haven't seen her since whenever we last smashed...
4. Black Girl #2: "Nella"
Messed with at same time as the previous two, but we only had sex once, at a hotel. And she had a very nice frame but couldn't take dikk. She was really cool to kick it with, and I really liked her. She liked me, but she was from St Louis, and she knew I was still on bullshyt, and I remember she told me she'd been around enough hood nikkas in her life, she wasn't interested in another one.
I was positive that I could change her mind once I got to smash, on some "wait to you see this dikk" type shyt. But to her credit, she knew I wasn't done yet and moved off of me. She was a year younger than me, I believe...
No issues at all at work, but we did have a date in Charlotte once, where she pulled over in the parking lot at Myers Park High School, and tripped on me, for messing with other women we worked with.
