Did R&B give us false expectations in relationships?

Rozay Oro

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NOT SAYING TO WATCH IT BUT I DID STEAL HIS PREMISE.
Is he right? I have never been an actual relationship of being adored and shyt. Everything has just been lust as far as all my interactions with women. After the date or we just kicking it, soon enough my dikk out and shyt. Whether in a movie theater parking lot or my place late at night, unless I crash at her place.

So how are some of y’all married?
 
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R&B is basically a "fantasy" on the opposite spectrum of rap.

R&B is a much needed OFFSET to the negative imagery put forth by rap music.

While rap paints the black man as "undesirables" as far as the type of man that you would want your daughter or sister to date .....R&B is the opposite.

The type of man that R&B portrays of the black man is the type of man who is conducive to a loving and stable relationship. A provider and protector. A kind and respectful person. A gentleman. The type of man that we would want our own daughters and sisters to meet.

I knew the attack on R&B would start happening as the relationship between BM & BW deteriorates (atleast online).

Black men are starting to view R&B as fake because there views on women are becoming more negative. They are no longer seeing women as people WORTHY of the love being talked about in the music.

Women are also starting to look at R&B funny in the light. They look outside at reality and black men are nothing like what's portrayed in the music.

Sad all the way around but as a huge lover of R&B and a lover of black women , I'm unaffected by the propaganda that's trying to divide us.

With that said:



:ohlawd:
 

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R&B is basically a "fantasy" on the opposite spectrum of rap.

R&B is a much needed OFFSET to the negative imagery put forth by rap music.

While rap paints the black man as "undesirables" as far as the type of man that you would want your daughter or sister to date .....R&B is the opposite.

The type of man that R&B portrays of the black man is the type of man who is conducive to a loving and stable relationship. A provider and protector. A kind and respectful person. A gentleman. The type of man that we would want our own daughters and sisters to meet.

I knew the attack on R&B would start happening as the relationship between BM & BW deteriorates (atleast online).

Black men are starting to view R&B as fake because there views on women are becoming more negative. They are no longer seeing women as people WORTHY of the love being talked about in the music.

Women are also starting to look at R&B funny in the light. They look outside at reality and black men are nothing like what's portrayed in the music.

Sad all the way around but as a huge lover of R&B and a lover of black women , I'm unaffected by the propaganda that's trying to divide us.

With that said:



:ohlawd:

That’s some real shyt :banderas:
 

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Mexican music sings about relationships. Country music sings about relationships. Would the same be said for those genres and their audience?
 
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