Did she play me

[The Realist Perspective]

I want to have a gauge if I’m suffering from toxic masculinity. Mind lending me your thoughts on the matter?

Quick facts:

Double date.

The girl that is my date we’ve been dating for about 2 months, close to the official bf gf stage.

The other date is her friend, and her new guy she’s dating. Let’s call him Bob.

Bob is your typical hyper masculine dude, like he has something to prove.

Fast forward in the double date, a decision needed to be made for the group. I was tasked to make it, Bob bumps in and pretty much says he doesn’t have time for this and makes the decision.

What the fukk ever. I don’t let it bother me. But what bothered me, was the girl I’m with said “let Dad handle it” after he made the decision for us.

Now should I take issue with this? Or is it my toxic masculinity seeping through?

I thought for her to make such a comment was total bullshyt. But I want to see what you all think before I bring this shyt up.

So should I bring it up, or just forget about it and keep it moving?

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

You might as well call that man daddy


She does

 

[poppastoppa]

You share that girl now.

 

[semicko82]

Toxic masculinity

 

[Tombstone]

This muhfukka had his bytch call another nikka dad

Then come online and ask other men like we have daddy


You fasho ain’t that dude

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

Toxic masculinity

For real. Breh lost the second he entertained that foolishness

 

[jdubnyce]

Bob in yah girls guts as you type

 

[ThrobbingHood]

 

[semicko82]

I'm assuming OP is Gen Z or younger millennial

 

[Sccit]

NO DONT BRING IT UP LMAO

TBH U SOUND SUPER INSECURE AND WAY TOO IN YOUR OWN HEAD

ALSO DONT COME TO A FORUM FULLA SOCIALLY MALADJUSTED INCELS TO SEEK ADVICE

BUT YEA, BUILD A BRIDGE N GET OVER IT.. NOTHIN GOOD COMES FROM A LACK OF CONFIDENCE. YOUR MOMENT TO SAY SOMETHIN WAS THEN N THERE.. U COULDA BEEN LIKE “DAN CAN HANDLE THE DECISIONS, ILL HANDLE THAT AZZ LATER TONIGHT!” N IT WOULDA BEEN OVER THEN N THERE.. BUT NOW OVERTHINKIN IT N SAYIN SOMETHIN LATER IS SOME HOE SHIIT

ALL TO THE GOOD

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

@The Realist Perspective we need more details about the decision...

You know women hate indecisive men

 

[Killer Instinct]

Fast forward in the double date, a decision needed to be made for the group. I was tasked to make it, Bob bumps in and pretty much says he doesn’t have time for this and makes the decision.

It's over.

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

NO DONT BRING IT UP LMAO

TBH U SOUND SUPER INSECURE AND WAY TOO IN YOUR OWN HEAD

ALSO DONT COME TO A FORUM FULLA SOCIALLY MALADJUSTED INCELS TO SEEK ADVICE

BUT YEA, BUILD A BRIDGE N GET OVER IT.. NOTHIN GOOD COMES FROM A LACK OF CONFIDENCE. YOUR MOMENT TO SAY SOMETHIN WAS THEN N THERE.. U COULDA BEEN LIKE “DAN CAN HANDLE THE DECISIONS, ILL HANDLE THAT AZZ LATER TONIGHT!” N IT WOULDA BEEN OVER THEN N THERE.. BUT NOW OVERTHINKIN IT N SAYIN SOMETHIN LATER IS SOME HOE SHIIT

ALL TO THE GOOD

Let us get our jokes off with your good advice

 

[NkrumahWasRight Is Wrong]

It's over.

@Big Boss

 

[Bud Bundy]

I want to have a gauge if I’m suffering from toxic masculinity. Mind lending me your thoughts on the matter?

Quick facts:

Double date.

The girl that is my date we’ve been dating for about 2 months, close to the official bf gf stage.

The other date is her friend, and her new guy she’s dating. Let’s call him Bob.

Bob is your typical hyper masculine dude, like he has something to prove.

Fast forward in the double date, a decision needed to be made for the group. I was tasked to make it, Bob bumps in and pretty much says he doesn’t have time for this and makes the decision.

What the fukk ever. I don’t let it bother me. But what bothered me, was the girl I’m with said “let Dad handle it” after he made the decision for us.

Now should I take issue with this? Or is it my toxic masculinity seeping through?

I thought for her to make such a comment was total bullshyt. But I want to see what you all think before I bring this shyt up.

So should I bring it up, or just forget about it and keep it moving?

How did she say it?

With lust or disgust?