Did she play me

[Phitz]

Seems more like a low key diss of the other dude. But, I don’t see the point in obsessing over something this trivial. Why don’t you bring it up with her?

This is possible too, since OP said she was arguing with her friend the night before

 

[Phantum]

Was she being sarcastic? Is he old and flabby? If not she playing you.

 

[Lurkio]

she was making fun of that nikka lol she basically had your back.
A young chick calling a dude dad is not a compliment

 

[Sleepy Floyd]

I have never heard something this dumb in my entire life

It literally happened in the OP

 

[Phitz]

It literally happened in the OP

you typed that as if it's the purpose of scheduling a double date

 

[Winsome Connoisseur]

I want to have a gauge if I’m suffering from toxic masculinity. Mind lending me your thoughts on the matter?

Quick facts:

Double date.

The girl that is my date we’ve been dating for about 2 months, close to the official bf gf stage.

The other date is her friend, and her new guy she’s dating. Let’s call him Bob.

Bob is your typical hyper masculine dude, like he has something to prove.

Fast forward in the double date, a decision needed to be made for the group. I was tasked to make it, Bob bumps in and pretty much says he doesn’t have time for this and makes the decision.

What the fukk ever. I don’t let it bother me. But what bothered me, was the girl I’m with said “let Dad handle it” after he made the decision for us.

Now should I take issue with this? Or is it my toxic masculinity seeping through?

I thought for her to make such a comment was total bullshyt. But I want to see what you all think before I bring this shyt up.

So should I bring it up, or just forget about it and keep it moving?

Maybe she said it in a joking/sarcastic manner since he’s domineering and seems to want to make all the decisions even though it’s not his to make. I could be wrong tho so the final decision is up to you

 

[The Realist Perspective]

He's a trash person, I'm not going to insult your girl but you should consider finding someone else, IF she meant that as a flirt and NOT an insult.

Finally, I don't upstage anybody in front of their girl, much less a stranger.

I only do that to my close friends/brothers/cousins IN PRIVATE to troll them, mostly on a joke vibe.

You’re the only one that seems to get the shyt.

 

[GodinDaFlesh]

Your issue is mainly with Bob. You should’ve told his impatient ass to chill, and then chose the bar/restaurant you wanted to go to.
I hate nikkas that show out in front of women, that shyt is so corny.

If this story is true and she did it in a flirty way, this. It would have made you look in charge. Bob can say whatever he wants, but they go where you want to go.

 

[maxamusa]

OP your girl called another man daddy

 

[RickyGQ]

she was making fun of that nikka lol she basically had your back.
A young chick calling a dude dad is not a compliment

Right, “this nikka thinks he’s our dad or something…”

 

[Lurkio]

You’re the only one that seems to get the shyt.

Bruh the dude disrespected u for sure…but your girl did not especially if u were thinking of making her your gf

She tried to mock bob to help u out since u didn’t handle the situation in the moment…your insecurities made u interpret the situation a certain way

Don’t bring this up w her…observe her for a few more months then decide if u should make her your girl or not…and 2 months is way too short to vet a girl for that position anyway…don’t be emotional