Did she violate girl code asking her man to pop up?

[Pseudonym]

I need more context

 

[L&HH]

If dude is in the area then I assume he got a hotel or something if so she probably should have went to go see him. With that said it’s not that big of deal for shorty to be trying to fight about it.

 

[Windows 91]

Oh I didn't realize initially that he brought some other dudes too. Yeah, I don't know about that

Personally, I wouldn't have rolled through just because I don't like being there with all her friends. The single ones be asking weird, too personal questions.

 

[Ethnic Vagina Finder]

I need more context

simple

3 girls rented an airbnb for a "girls trip"

On the last day 1 girls boyfriend shows up without the other girls knowing.

And he brought 2 other guys with him.

So one can assume, when they decided he was going to pop up, the boyfriend probably asked if he could bring some of his friends and she agreed.

In her mind she probably thought she was hooking her friends up with some D.... but the friends were caught off guard and obviously wasn't feeling the vibe and the one good spazzed out.

 

[Huda2daf]

Jealous or she on some trash.

 

[Trav]

All you gotta do is ask ya self how you'd feel if you & the homie grab a BnB to do whatever and one of the brehs have his ole lady pull up one night lol. Got no problem wit a nicca tending to his needs---go getcha sum top in the whip or something but don't have her all in the mix, in the crib fukkin' wit the vibes.

 

[spliz]

Tbf, she shouldn't have bought her man. And yes it is against girl code. If she was gonna bring her man to a girls trip, she should of said.

Go on a baecation with your man if you can't spend some time away. Its bad etiquette.

There was no reason for her to act that hostile. Number 2. She made it clear that the girl knew her man was out there. Number 3 I'll be DAMNED if u try to dictate what I do on a trip and air bnb that IM paying for. If it's that serious YOU get the fukk out. It's the last day. Son ain't even stay the night. I bet she wouldn't have had a problem if shorty brought a random nikka she met out there home tho.

 

[spliz]

All you gotta do is ask ya self how you'd feel if you & the homie grab a BnB to do whatever and one of the brehs have his ole lady pull up one night lol. Got no problem wit a nicca tending to his needs---go getcha sum top in the whip or something but don't have her all in the mix, in the crib fukkin' wit the vibes.

If that nikka paid for ur stay u need to stfu and keep ur "vibe" feelings to urself. It's the last night it's not that damn serious everybody got they own rooms too. I'd be damned if my boy tried to fight me over me smashing my shorty for a night on a what I assume was atleast a week long trip.

 

[Trav]

If that nikka paid for ur stay u need to stfu and keep ur "vibe" feelings to urself. It's the last night it's not that damn serious everybody got they own rooms too. I'd be damned if my boy tried to fight me over me smashing my shorty for a night on a what I assume was atleast a week long trip.

In what scenario would a nicca be paying for my stay? Foh

If that's what happened with this goofy ass broad, yea she ain't gotta leg to stand on. But if this was some we all putting into take take a break away from the norm, we don't get to see each other blah blah blah, if u can't stay away from ya partner for 3-4 days, u need help cuh lol

 

[spliz]

In what scenario would a nicca be paying for my stay? Foh

If that's what happened with this goofy ass broad, yea she ain't gotta leg to stand on. But if this was some we all putting into take take a break away from the norm, we don't get to see each other blah blah blah, if u can't stay away from ya partner for 3-4 days, u need help cuh lol

Her man live out there where they was at I guess. And yea. Shorty paid for the Air Bnb. I'd be damned imma do wtf I want in some shyt I'm paying for.

 

[Trav]

Her man live out there where they was at I guess. And yea. Shorty paid for the Air Bnb. I'd be damned imma do wtf I want in some shyt I'm paying for.

Oh yeah, big mama can pack that up and take it up the street to Waffle House den

It's a tricky game wit finances & power dynamics within a friendship/relationship but u gotta know who u dealing wit

 

[FluffyEyes]

I think what everyone missed is the fact that her boyfriend brought 2 nikkas with him…. So this was planned. She even say he brought friends for them.

That’s kinda a violation.

If the roles were reversed, the reaction would’ve been the exact opposite.

Yea that's definitely a violation, especially if it wasn't agreed upon with the other ladies. Nobody needs to be screaming and hollering about it, a simple conversation should be able to clear it up.

 

[Cat piss martini]

Sounds like the pale manbearpig was
hoping for a extra chunky dyke out.