....Or at least one that I've noticed, and thats the content of their conversations when first getting to know me.
Specifically, Ive noticed that black women almost always ask me if I have a girlfriend, and actually seem shocked when they find out I dont. White women never ask, or raise the issue, and Ive dealt with a fair amount of white women in the past few years.
If I were to theorize as to why, it would be that black women look at me as a potential future mate, while white women not so much, and actually might be repulsed by the idea. Its one night, or fling status with the latter. Generalization for sure, but its a trend that Ive picked up on.
Thoughts?
Specifically, Ive noticed that black women almost always ask me if I have a girlfriend, and actually seem shocked when they find out I dont. White women never ask, or raise the issue, and Ive dealt with a fair amount of white women in the past few years.
If I were to theorize as to why, it would be that black women look at me as a potential future mate, while white women not so much, and actually might be repulsed by the idea. Its one night, or fling status with the latter. Generalization for sure, but its a trend that Ive picked up on.
Thoughts?