these go hand in hand
most men aren't high up in their career, with a home, a car, financially straight, money in a 401k, having got all the fun out, all the partying done, all the fukking of hoes complete.......... by 21-25
shyt by 25 you just hoping to be out of entry level, fresh out of college jobs and positions IF you went to college... and then you start to build that up from there...
around 30 is when you start hitting your peak... and i'm in my 30's i know.. yea i thought i was the shyt with a little apt, a used honda and a shytty job... i could make ends meet, buy a dub, buy a bottle, hit the club and book a few broads
but NOW
i have a CAREER.. a savings account and checking with thousands in it... a house.. i can grow weed if i felt like it and buy a pound at a time.. i can buy a bottle, at the club, in brazil, or ireland, or croatia... fukk the club we doing concert tickets... fukk a beach week, we going to jamaica
the women my age tho.......
already bitter from the 20 years of being fukked over by men.... already divorced... already got kids... they MIGHT have their own, but FACTS is they climb the ladder slower and get paid less... they want to move too damn fast to rush into something serious... probably cause nikkas is smelling they desperation and just fukking and leaving, so they figure "i'm not here for no hookups, i'm too old for that shyt, i'm looking to settle down and be married in the next few years so don't waste my time"
now will you meet some young dudes on their grind who are doing it already... sure
will you meet some older women with no kids and independent and not looking for you to make up for the last 15 guys mistakes.... sure
but it's highly fukking unlikely... and i'm not even saying "go date young women"
i'm saying DATE WHOEVER THE fukk YOU WANT.... if she's beautiful and everything you want inside and out... who the fukk is society to tell you not to date her? cause the number of years she's been on earth is less than yours? even tho she might be 10 years mentally passed that 40 year drunk at the bar with 3 kids at home.....
society out here with a 50% marriage failure rate, why you taking advice from them anyway