Ditch the apps and approach in person they said

[Legend27]

Women, 'average' women on those dating apps have 50 matches at any given moment. And thats a minimum.

So how are dating/social media apps more efficient for men?

Ok and if 10 of those matches are quality dudes, how is that efficient?

If those 10 matches are your height and well put together, how is that more efficient for you?

Are women are picky online?

Can you show your personality online?

Will your personality win over the better looking dudes?


I don't see how its more efficient for the average 5'8 man who makes $60k to be on dating apps instead of talking to women in person.

women don’t have 50 matches on any given moment likes sure but not matches and even if it was true in nikkas can send multiple messages or swipe through profiles multiplying their chances of success. the ability to talk with multiple people at the same time makes the process much more efficient than trying to be Nathan Drake. you’re ignoring so many variables couple being how many just want sex, how many actually respond to messages, ghosting, etc also simply them having different politics, personality, life goals, etc

At the end of the day nikkas should be eating like Bill Russell in the 1960s

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

1. Are you trying to date women or just hookup? If you’re trying to date a woman, wouldn’t you rather she be picky? You trying to date easy bytches?

2. Yes you can. Your aesthetic, location of photos, expression in photos, and your bio give information about your personality.

3. Yes. Your personality will win over better looking dudes. Do you think the majority of women just choose men off looks? So all women only choose the best looking men they can date? Go outside and look at couples in the real world. Personality counts alot. There’s no denying that.

4. An average guy with things going on in his life and a good personality can eat. You need to have some substance behind who you are. Refer to the Kevin Samuel’s video about a dude complaining that women are too picky and Kevin asks him questions about his life and figures out it’s because he’s overweight, lacks ambition, is broke and is boring/doesn’t do anything interesting.

You can have a combination of different strengths and weaknesses across all those aspects… but you can’t lack EVERYTHING. Women at least need a few reasons to fukk with you. If you are broke but you have charisma and are fun to be with you can pull. If you are out of shape but you make money and have a good social network you can eat. If you lack charisma but you are in shape and have money you can eat.

It’s the combination of traits… you don’t need to be a 6’5 bodybuilding millionaire social media star to get women on these apps. You nikkas are just lanes who blame women for not choosing you. But nikkas with only one strong trait (looks, charisma, money, or social status) get women with no issue.

Can you respond back with the traits you have that women are attracted to?

So the average 5'8 guy making $60k salary would get better feedback using dating apps vs. going out and socializing?

I don’t know why you keep bringing up traits and personality when you cant convey that on dating apps and looks coming first. People choose off looks first, personality 2nd. A shytty tall better looking dude has more matches than the average looking guy

 

[Chrishaune]

I know we are not worried about a chick covered in tattoos

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Some of ya'll are delusional and not looking through the lens of the 'average' guy. And the fact that ya'll think a majority of dudes don't get matches "because they are dusty" speaks volumes. We just had a video of some 3/10 broad saying most men are chopped, but im supposed to believe dating apps are more efficient




This aint redpill, incel talk. Its reality. Average guys are much better socializing vs dating a


If y'all really want to prove me wrong, create a fake dating profile with the average 5'8 guy making $60k salary.

 

[Savvir]

So the average 5'8 guy making $60k salary would get better feedback using dating apps vs. going out and socializing?

I don’t know why you keep bringing up traits and personality when you cant convey that on dating apps and looks coming first. People choose off looks first, personality 2nd. A shytty tall better looking dude has more matches than the average looking guy

1. How come you bring up $60k so much? I took photos with gear I copped on sale from Amazon, Ross, and some limited edition chucks I copped for cheap off stock x ($60) and discounted acg Nikes from the outlet ($70). No car, no jewelry, no designer stuff.

You can look well put together without making $100k+ a year. Knowing how to dress well doesn’t take money. It takes having fashion sense.

2. Looks always come first in any situation. Your personality comes through with how you dress, move/stand/facial expression, the words you say and who you associate with. You can convey this in a dating profile in the same way you express this when approaching real life women.

3. If two people look exactly the same but one is taller… the taller guy will do better in real life too. But why are you comparing yourself against other men instead of just maximizing your own attractiveness? Why are you so focused on what other men are doing?

An entrepreneur millionaire gonna do better than you in real life too… but what’s the point of even thinking about that?

Can you dress?

Do you have good hygiene?

Do you have an interesting life?

Do you have interesting hobbies?

Do you have a dope social circle?

Do you have charisma?

These are questions you gotta ask yourself instead of focusing on other men you think are doing better than you. Can you even answer these questions?

A chick will choose a very attractive guy just as equally as she would choose a guy she thinks she will have fun with. Do you come across like a guy who women will enjoy being around? How do you convey that in real life? Why can’t you convey that online?

Once again, you have to know how to market your strengths if you have any.

4. How many women do you approach monthly in real life? Of the women that you approach, how many do you go on dates with?

Need to know what you are doing in real life to see what the disconnect is with what I’m saying.

We just had a video of some 3/10 broad saying most men are chopped, but im supposed to believe dating apps are more efficient


If y'all really want to prove me wrong, create a fake dating profile with the average 5'8 guy making $60k salary.

1. That 3/10 would ignore average guys in real life too… the dating app makes no difference. So why are you trying to blame the app?

2. Show me a picture of what an average guy making $60k looks like.

I’m 6’5 but I can reactivate my dating profile, remove the full length picture that shows me being tall and I can pull women with just the same bio I created in 2022. My outfits are all under $80 + $60-$70 shoes. I don’t wear anything a guy making $60k couldn’t afford.

I’m willing to put money up on this experiment.

 

[Gloxina]

Highly unpopular opinion incoming :

Not everyone should be parents. A lot of damaged folks out here that came out of damaged homes. I know the running narrative is that one's upbringing has no effect on adulthood(unless it's something positive ironically) but it's bs.

And yes it all ties into stupidity. Big believer in 'It's starts in the home'. You talk to a lot of folks....drugged up parents. Emotionally unavailable parents. Abusive parents. And before folks come in talking about it shouldn't hold anyone back because of their own personal story? Gonna remind you of something that is all too often forgotten in online discussions.

Exceptions are not rules.

And

Not everyone responds to everything the same way.

You are absolutely correct

 

[The Plug]

Cacs are annoying.

 

[Ducktales]

Smashing

 

[Ghost Utmost]

Women choose. Always have.

Pick up artists prolly have 1/10 success rate. Low percentage, but if you approach 20 women a month, you net a couple wins.

Last night I had a sort of cold approach moment. Chatted this women up all night across two bars. Was supposed to meet up and have lunch but she cancelled on me. The meeting was SOHH much fun. Getting cancelled on, not SOHH much.

Her excuse was semi believable but I feel like I already know the game enough to know I got flaked out on.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

1. How come you bring up $60k so much? I took photos with gear I copped on sale from Amazon, Ross, and some limited edition chucks I copped for cheap off stock x ($60) and discounted acg Nikes from the outlet ($70). No car, no jewelry, no designer stuff.

You can look well put together without making $100k+ a year. Knowing how to dress well doesn’t take money. It takes having fashion sense.

2. Looks always come first in any situation. Your personality comes through with how you dress, move/stand/facial expression, the words you say and who you associate with. You can convey this in a dating profile in the same way you express this when approaching real life women.

3. If two people look exactly the same but one is taller… the taller guy will do better in real life too. But why are you comparing yourself against other men instead of just maximizing your own attractiveness? Why are you so focused on what other men are doing?

An entrepreneur millionaire gonna do better than you in real life too… but what’s the point of even thinking about that?

Can you dress?

Do you have good hygiene?

Do you have an interesting life?

Do you have interesting hobbies?

Do you have a dope social circle?

Do you have charisma?

These are questions you gotta ask yourself instead of focusing on other men you think are doing better than you. Can you even answer these questions?

A chick will choose a very attractive guy just as equally as she would choose a guy she thinks she will have fun with. Do you come across like a guy who women will enjoy being around? How do you convey that in real life? Why can’t you convey that online?

Once again, you have to know how to market your strengths if you have any.

4. How many women do you approach monthly in real life? Of the women that you approach, how many do you go on dates with?

Need to know what you are doing in real life to see what the disconnect is with what I’m saying.


1. That 3/10 would ignore average guys in real life too… the dating app makes no difference. So why are you trying to blame the app?

2. Show me a picture of what an average guy making $60k looks like.

I’m 6’5 but I can reactivate my dating profile, remove the full length picture that shows me being tall and I can pull women with just the same bio I created in 2022. My outfits are all under $80 + $60-$70 shoes. I don’t wear anything a guy making $60k couldn’t afford.

I’m willing to put money up on this experiment.

Online dating isnt it for the average guy breh. Too many dudes complain how its bs. But let me guess, they're all dusty dudes who dont wash their ass or brush their teeth or they aren't creative enough to have a conversation.

You sounding more and more like the women on those dating apps.

 

[Savvir]

Online dating isnt it fam. Too many dudes complain how its bs. But let me guess, theyre all dusty dudes who dont wash their ass or brush their teeth?

You didn’t answer any of the questions I asked..



Are you ashamed of yourself? Explain.

 

[MoveForward]

By the way I'm 34, a late millennial the women my age are starting to crash out hard. I think there realizing men of quality are either staying single or not checking for them at all.

I’m an even later millennial at 37 and these broads are pitiful.