When you think about it a lot of them see women not as human beings but as objects of desire and sex. They group women into two categories; sex objects/ girlfriend type and ugly and not to be bothered with.
The ugly ones who they have no desire to have sex with they don’t even bother getting to know. They view the attractive ones as a sex object instead of just seeing them as human beings so in their presence, they’re nervous or they don’t even make any attempt to get to know them.
I mean, these guys have no problem talking to men or being friends with men because they’re not interested in having sex with men, so they’re more themselves when with men.
The trick for them, I think is to adopt the same method they use for men with women too. See every woman regardless of how attractive she is as a human first and remove any thoughts of sex or her being your girlfriend in your head. It’s going to take a lot of practice of course, but I believe incels or any nikkas that struggle with women should adopt this.
The ugly ones who they have no desire to have sex with they don’t even bother getting to know. They view the attractive ones as a sex object instead of just seeing them as human beings so in their presence, they’re nervous or they don’t even make any attempt to get to know them.
I mean, these guys have no problem talking to men or being friends with men because they’re not interested in having sex with men, so they’re more themselves when with men.
The trick for them, I think is to adopt the same method they use for men with women too. See every woman regardless of how attractive she is as a human first and remove any thoughts of sex or her being your girlfriend in your head. It’s going to take a lot of practice of course, but I believe incels or any nikkas that struggle with women should adopt this.


