Do males raised by single mothers grow up with a sense of authority and need to maintain order over their community and women?

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Serious question.

I get a lot of flack and resistance for calling out actions I see detrimental to our families and communities. I do the same in real life. I saw my dad check, correct and fight violators and threats if need be. So personally I just have a need to intervene when things are a lot of line.

A lot of the flack I get now seems to be from men. I could say our women need to stop twerking and showing their azz so much. And I get as much flack from men as I do from women. Seems a lot of men have never seen a woman checked or corrected. They're use to seeing women do all the checking and calling things out. So having male authority feels unnatural to most men.
I think they've been taught to protect and support mom no matter what. Never tell mom she's wrong. And attack any man that does, even if she's wrong.

So we have a generations of people that reject all authority figures that's not a loud woman. So many men are afraid to challenge women. Black men are damn near voiceless when it comes to Black issues. Look how they Attacked Cube and even Phyllicia Rashad when she rubs sisters wrong.

I think this a very serious issue in a community that isn't discussed. Women dont teach HONOR nor do they know how to teach a man to lead men or be a respectful man. How can they?
 

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The whole "raised by single mothers = bad" thing is just misogyny. There are good single moms and bad single moms. And some dudes are raised by both parents and still become a simp or a felon.

Statistics show you better with parents... but stats dont matter to Black folks.

And All critique of our women is bashing and hate right?
 

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The whole "raised by single mothers = bad" thing is just misogyny. There are good single moms and bad single moms. And some dudes are raised by both parents and still become a simp or a felon.
What type of households do the overwhelming majority of felons grow up in?
 

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He don't care.. smh. All he knows is those stats rubs his single mother wrong so it has to be denied and attacked.
And there it is. The redpill incel rage just came spewing out of you. You couldn't hold it in any longer.

The reality is that you refuse to hold men accountable and are blaming women for the actions of men. That's bytchmade behavior. You can get butthurt about it if you want, but it's the truth.

What straight man complains about women showing some ass? We ain't gonna wife those chicks obviously. But to whine about a bytch twerking is weird af
 

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Could be…

I think a lot are just used to women running things in their lives so if you speak out against anything, their first instinct is to defend them whether right or wrong.

Or, their mother really couldn’t control them so just let them do whatever, say whatever, and eventually be whatever so unless that kid has a plan and a purpose/understanding, he’s gonna learn everything the hard way.

But I’ve seen men that had both parents and still had a mother that ran their lives and fathers life too… so idk if this is the full truth to it all. Not saying it’s good or bad, but I do agree with what the stats say.
 
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The whole "raised by single mothers = bad" thing is just misogyny. There are good single moms and bad single moms. And some dudes are raised by both parents and still become a simp or a felon.
This 100%.

My experience is that if a kid has good parenting with strong discipline + love....the kids turn out well mostly.

Shytty parenting and the kids have A LOT to overcome.

2 parents >>> 1 parent; but 1 good/great parent is wayyyyy better than 2 middling or shytty parents. Just having a man around doesn't mean shyt if he's not teaching his son the right things.
 
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