Do people immediately hate on or try you upon meeting you ?

Trajan

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I swear it feels like when I intially meet people. I can feel them trying me or make a flippant comment. I think I'm a nice person and I been told by other people I'm a nice person but I think I'm to nice. I'm gonna start being bytch, I really don't give a fukk anymore. I'm tried of being nice to folks.


Real shyt. Sometimes I feel it's "fukk with Trajan day"

I have a naturally friendly disposition but unfortunately some people interpret that as weakness.

I know exactly what you mean OP.

But you need to give them a rude awakening :ufdup:

Always happens with me. I've had situations where people thought I was the safe one to try for fukkshyt (when they don't know me) in a group. :ufdup:

Then they become meek and go in the opposite direction and dikkride. Smh i hate having to do that but don't force my hand.

I found it difficult to transition into professional environments because I was accustomed to putting hands on ppl when I felt disrespected.
 

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Real shyt. Sometimes I feel it's "fukk with Trajan day"

I have a naturally friendly disposition but unfortunately some people interpret that as weakness.

I know exactly what you mean OP.

But you need to give them a rude awakening :ufdup:

Always happens with me. I've had situations where people thought I was the safe one to try for fukkshyt (when they don't know me) in a group. :ufdup:

Then they become meek and go in the opposite direction and dikkride. Smh i hate having to do that but don't force my hand.

I found it difficult to transition into professional environments because I was accustomed to putting hands on ppl when I felt disrespected.
Yes. professional environments are the worst because people love to make slick ass comments. One of the reasons I hate sarcasm with passion.
 

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First impressions, yeah I get judged and do the same back based off first impressions. Haven't yet met a human that doesn't do it.
 

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People seem to take me seriously at least when interacting with them. Whether they turn into cowards or not and say stuff behind my back is unknown. I don't know what kind of clowns you all are interacting with to be disrespected.
 

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My handshake is firm but I find men like over squeeze my hand. As a woman, I feel like like are trying me with that. I've put my nails into people who try to over sqeeze.

:takedat: thats right dont take that shyt.

real thread. people are drawn to quiet individuals and want to test them. im more than okay with that though :demonic:
 

Couth

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You don't need to be a bytch. Just keep it consistently 100 and people will know not to try you.

When you feel like someone is disrespecting you call them on it, then ignore them completely. Don't be passive aggressive just state your beef. "You act funny, i don't like clowns, please stay away from me." <- short and sweet.
 

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I'm big enough where I don't get tried by people :manny:

I'm not a tough guy tho :whoa:
 
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