This should be obvious to any man over the age of 30.
You become nothing more than a stepping stone to the hoes checking for you. They don't love you, they love the lifestyle.
A woman that loves you will still be with you even when you're broke and built like Homer Simpson. If you don't grow up in a household with parents that genuinely love eachother you're more likely to not know anything about that.
We dehumanize people and turn them into achievements to pump our egos up and try to convince ourselves we have value by seeking the external validation of others. The people who truly matter see you for exactly who you are and will keep it real with you because they care about you. That's love. The best the player lifestyle will get you is a young woman who realizes that while you're starting to look like her grandfather, there are younger men with fatter pockets checking for her and she'll set her eyes on them.
The thing a lot of women refuse to admit is that them players know how to attract women. They don't want to admit it partially because they got finessed by one or more playaz in their own life and it's too painful to admit that those men know how to get women. If they were willing to admit that physical appearance, clout, and money can bag a huge amount of women, then they could take it a step further and say "but those aren't the things that will make a woman love you." Mothers are so scared their sons may turn into the kind of man that finessed them in their youth that they don't know how to speak to their sons and them boys either end up as bitter incels or "alpha males" that don't know how to be emotionally mature husbands and fathers.
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