Do these women really want the truth?

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long story short i was chillin with these bad shortys tonight and one was getting their hair did. never met them before but we all was kickin it and having good convo. one of the shortys was getting some ms sealy braids that wasn't very attractive for her. I guess because me and my boy was laughin at some other shyt she thought the joke was on her about her hair.

So she begins to ask us about her hair and how does it look

I warned her and told her if she really wants the truth ill tell but she might not like it but she seemed like the type of girl that could take it

anyway i spoke my mind and shorty seemed acceptive of the thought but kinda hurt smh.

I'm the type of the nikka that doesn't care bout what ppl think but why do women say they want the truth but when they get it they can't handle it?:mindblown:

does lying to them really make things that much easier?
 

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doesn't sound like you was tryna smash, so you told the truth. every bytch and situation is handled differently tho.

I'm shocked that she thought the "Celie" from "The Color Purple look" would be attractive, period. :patrice:
 

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No...

My gf: Do you look at other girls?:usurecup:

Me: Nah bae :cacmj2:course not.

My gf: Are you sure? You can tell me... i can be like one of ya boys :krs:

Me: im sure :rudy:

My gf: I know you do :comeon:

Me: Ok fine I look at them and think their attractive :lupe::birdman:

My gf: :whoo::to::sadbron::lupe::shaq2:

Me::snoop:
Hahaha @ the smiley usage.
 

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I always tell the truth from the beginning, that way when I tell the truth about some serious shyt later on they aren't shocked or too hurt and they respect me more for it.
 

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Learn to tell half truths and or deflect

Do I look fat in this dress?

Your ass does :ehh:

Ugh my boobs are so small I hate them

Least your back won't be hurting :mjpls:

What dress do you like more?

Which one is easier to come off :shaq:

Passes by a bunch of restaurants ugh I'm so hungry.

I have a granola bar in my trunk :ehh:
 

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No...

My gf: Do you look at other girls?:usurecup:

Me: Nah bae :cacmj2:course not.

My gf: Are you sure? You can tell me... i can be like one of ya boys :krs:

Me: im sure :rudy:

My gf: I know you do :comeon:

Me: Ok fine I look at them and think their attractive :lupe::birdman:

My gf: :whoo::to::sadbron::lupe::shaq2:

Me::snoop:


yo girlfriend is immature, socially and sexually, breh.
any chick who got a problem with their esso looking at other females.
or, even making a comment about other females, is a moron.

y'all in a relationship together,..
if you can't say somebody else is attractive, to your mate and especially a committal.
there are some social issues and maturation that has not occurred.

if the chick gets self conscious or inadequate about a comment on another female.
that is because she knows she lacks the dexterity to take it.
plus, knows she is not capable of surpassing the person their committal/esso/lover commented on.
when, mentally....
as long as the comment is not made in a malicious way.

the comment was not meant to make the other person feel inadequate.

now, if you an overly verbally/mentally/physically abusive, cheater swag face ass nikka.
who got a female who won't get a backbone and leave your ass.
plus, is a willing prisoner to those mind games.

it is what it is,.........


art barr
 

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the phrase:

stop play'n with me!


that should be your friend.......

next,...
stop having social interaction with females, who are suitable mates.
if you not in an environment to dip off and smash.
or if you never smashed them,...
you only get once to make a first impression.
the more you make a situation where you don't have a chance to make an intimate connection with a female on some uncontrollable i desire you tip.
the more you gon be on some brothers wit no game ass bullshyt.

fukk entertaining some chicks, so then...
they dip off and go fukk somebody else after you put on a show.

only way, i am kicking it around some females i find undesireable is if they somebody from the block.
who we been matching and putting on for years, and i was never on some i wanna smash her type tip.

i don't chill with new chicks on some buddy shyt, if i wanna smash them.
then, there is no opp, or place to slide away and smash.

if the shyt not set up to smash, and it is someone i am attracted to.
on the i desire to smash the holy hell outta her.
i don't be around, at all.

stop being a social excursion for chicks who not going to fukk you.

so, you don't have to answer or get posed those types of questions....





art barr
 

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"Do these women really want the truth?"

No. They don't, you tell them the truth 3 years in advance, then ironically they say the same shyt you been told them and/or warned them about 3 years ago. They turn your truth and realization into theirs and actually feel like during that time they thought of it on their own. Or they took those years of experience to formulate that experience and realization but in reality it was someone else who told them in the beginning.

Tell someone 2+2=4 and if you don't do 1 + 1 + 1 + 1 you're going to get a different number. They do 3+1 = 4 and somehow is oblivious to the fact you already gave them the answer and work around. Their stubbornness has allowed them to waste their time for how ever long. Basically they rather go through the mud than walk on my coat.

P.S. I'm ranting on my own situation. I only read your title.
 
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