Do we really have to wait until our friends are dead/dying to say we love them?

[concise]

I mean, really? Other than our parents or significant others, is there a good reason for this? Do we really have to wait until we see them wasting away with no hair on their heads, no eyebrows, all lethargic to say it? Or all discolored and only partially recognizable after several layers of makeup in the weird funeral home light?

 

[DerrtySouthpaw]

shyt too real for these nikkas

 

[The 2020 New Member]

shiiiit what do you consider a friend? i love my friends and their families and i've told them many times. i'll continue to do so.

 

[Brofato]

I never tell anyone I love them.

It feels weird coming out of my mouth. I told my last girlfriend I did and that took a hell of a long time.

I assume most people wait until that time to say it because when you're living in the present you don't really think that the people you love will be gone soon. You're just enjoying them and the time you're in. And then the assumption that everyone involved just knows the love is already there without it having to be vocalized.

So suddenly having to come to terms with that, facing the inevitable that all your friends will die and even you will die causes a rise in emotions, letting the love fly out. Which probably leads many people to call up the people they care about and tell them they love them after they witness some tragic shyt.

 

[concise]

I never tell anyone I love them.

It feels weird coming out of my mouth. I told my last girlfriend I did and that took a hell of a long time.

I assume most people wait until that time to say it because when you're living in the present you don't really think that the people you love will be gone soon. You're just enjoying them and the time you're in. And then the assumption that everyone involved just knows the love is already there without it having to be vocalized.

It does feel weird, agreed, but I still think it probably she be done.

I just don't think it should be so hard.

 

[dr. pill biden]

i rarely tell my friends i love them because the men will take offense to it and it's relatively meaningless amongst the women.

but i try to demonstrate with my actions how much i love and and appreciate and fukk with these nikkaz forever. and it's true, you usually don't have to speak on what's understood. when it comes to be their time and they look back on their life, lord willing, they'll know.

 

[concise]

 

[TheFemalePerspective]

I always end a convo with... I love you (to close family members and friends).

It's sad that people don't say this more often.

 

[PicoRoscoe]

We don't love these hoes.

 

[Raava]

I tell my friends and family I love them. I just do.

 

[Yapdatfool]

No, better say/act how you really feel ASAP cause you might never get a chance to again

 

[Nefrodamus]

I hate when nikkas call me gay for expressing my appreciation for them.

 

[*L*E*G*A*C*Y*]

I tell em every day.

I call my homies "bae" and the "love of my life" like my man Young Thug.

 

[Deflatedhoopdreams]

All my best friends live out of town. I tell them I love them everytime we talk which is a few times a month. with a no homo on the end though

 

[MAKAVELI25]

I love my friends and they love me (n/h), but the amount of clowning that would ensue if one of us says it would be epic. I'm talking, not being able to live it down for YEARS