As a female I think men are less suspicious than women so if a woman wants to they have a better chance of it than men, we’re always in your phone lol
Will touch on a couple things I dont see mentioned but kinda in this vain. Women are not better cheaters but they have built in advantages. When a women gets suspicious she has carte blanche to do any and all they deem necessary to go thru your shyt with a fine tooth comb. Plus as women they have already been watching your every move from how you sleep, to any names you mention at work, to how you move, they dont get called out for facetime calls, going thru phone, etc.
If a man has any suspicion, unless he has absolute hard he will be gaslit as calling her a whore, called insecure for questioning even by other men, and be shunned to not even look or investigate. That alone gives a leg up and thats not even including whats mentioned previously about other man playing his role and staying low key. Then you add the amount of communication nowadays, you not gonna get tipped off thru messages or phone logs, because they have hidden finsta account where they can message and call, ghost whatsapps, sending messages thru draft email accounts that never get sent, etc. The game is DEEEEEEEEEEEEEEP, I done seen too much brehs. Its cold out here.
I will say alot of brehs do it to themselves too, they dont really know they girl how they think and with social media, EVERY Ex has access to they broad and only a DM away.