Do women actually like being treated like shyt or is it just a myth?

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For women, value >>> treatment.

They rather be with a high value dude that treats them like crap, then a low value dude that treats them like a goddess.

It's in a man's nature to treat a girl that he sees as wifey material as a queen, and the treat lower value chicks like jumpoffs.

But here's the rub. If you're just an average guy, go around and attempt to treat bad bi**es like s**t. You'll find out that they're not even going to give you the opportunity to do so. You have to put yourself in a position of vulnerability to be dogged out. And super fine chicks have no reason to put themselves in that position with a regular dude. The more you level up, the more women will give you that opportunity. But IMO, as long as you present yourself in a strong confident manner, it won't matter if you treat her good or not.
Black women definitely value him more. Don't let these ColiBrehettes fool you. A LOT of black women prefer light skin guys. Add on to that that he's about 6'0, dresses well, has curly hair and doesn't put a woman above himself and I've seen black women literally throw themselves at him.

He lost his virginity to a grown woman when he was like 14 (or was it 12:jbhmm:) for Christ's sake...

Edit: When I was 15, I had a girl start flirting with me just off the fact that she saw me and him side-by-side in person and looked alike
 

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If you not laying wood like a log cabin on em that a$$hole shyt won't last long you gotta dikkmatize em first. Females like direction and decisiveness. An a$$hole personality is unwaivering so it's pretty much lite work. This doesn't go for all females though some women's introduction to relationships was dysfunctional due to the dudes her mom brought in and out of the house(I'm talking about crazy dudes). So some of think that's actually how relationships are supposed play out.
 

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My brother has a girl that he treats like shyt, doesn't do shyt for and yet, she is paying his rent, car note and gives him whatever he wants. I'm just like:mindblown: because I treat women nice and still have to go out of my way to pull women and even then they don't do shyt for me.:martin:

The fukked up thing about it is that he has his own money so he's just been saving. Dude has a nice ass job and she's so sprung that she will do anything for him. Ima keep being nice, but I'm not gonna go out of my way to do shyt for a girl.

I'm not a fake nice guy btw(saw a thread on that topic)
answer in OP:yeshrug:



no matter what you do, keep a woman around you that loves you more than you love her.

no matter how good ur pipe game is, or how rich you are. women love excitement and get bored easily...this will never happen if she the one who loves you.
 

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My brother has a girl that he treats like shyt, doesn't do shyt for and yet, she is paying his rent, car note and gives him whatever he wants. I'm just like:mindblown: because I treat women nice and still have to go out of my way to pull women and even then they don't do shyt for me.:martin:

The fukked up thing about it is that he has his own money so he's just been saving. Dude has a nice ass job and she's so sprung that she will do anything for him. Ima keep being nice, but I'm not gonna go out of my way to do shyt for a girl.

I'm not a fake nice guy btw(saw a thread on that topic)



Awww I remember when I was 18
 

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1. All women are different so stop generalizing.

2. Often women who allow men to treat them like shiii usually have emotional, psychological, and spiritual issues.

3. Find you a Proverbs 31 woman and you won't have any major issues.

4. When a woman knows her worth she won't put up with shiii...no matter how thorough you blowing her back out.

:yeshrug:
 

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A real women with self respect will demand to be treated as such.............

Most women have no self-respect
No father to show them how to be treated
 

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My brother has a girl that he treats like shyt, doesn't do shyt for and yet, she is paying his rent, car note and gives him whatever he wants. I'm just like:mindblown: because I treat women nice and still have to go out of my way to pull women and even then they don't do shyt for me.:martin:

The fukked up thing about it is that he has his own money so he's just been saving. Dude has a nice ass job and she's so sprung that she will do anything for him. Ima keep being nice, but I'm not gonna go out of my way to do shyt for a girl.

I'm not a fake nice guy btw(saw a thread on that topic)
women love both and it makes zero fukking sense

i know this because i treat women well.. not simping.. but i don't treat them like shyt

now whenever one of these women, who like me enough to throw me the box and want me to wife them up, get to talking about exes..... it's "he ain't have a job, he beat me, he dont take care of his kids, he ain't shyt, he cheated on me, we was together 7 years"


then they "tired" of that and want a guy who won't treat them like shyt... and will stay and put up with whatever in that relationship too



in the end, i think women just don't like giving up.. once they in love, they glued to your ass, no matter what the fukk you out here doing
 

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For women, value >>> treatment.

They rather be with a high value dude that treats them like crap, then a low value dude that treats them like a goddess.

It's in a man's nature to treat a girl that he sees as wifey material as a queen, and the treat lower value chicks like jumpoffs.

But here's the rub. If you're just an average guy, go around and attempt to treat bad bi**es like s**t. You'll find out that they're not even going to give you the opportunity to do so. You have to put yourself in a position of vulnerability to be dogged out. And super fine chicks have no reason to put themselves in that position with a regular dude. The more you level up, the more women will give you that opportunity. But IMO, as long as you present yourself in a strong confident manner, it won't matter if you treat her good or not.

Aren't you a 38 year old black man? Why do you always post like PUA cac in college?
 

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Aren't you a 38 year old black man? Why do you always post like PUA cac in college?

I didn't know you could type white or black. I work in a corporate environment so my writing style is largely based on how I write for work.

As far as maturity, I don't know what I'm supposed to say/do to sound more mature. I'm just providing my take on the issue. IMO, the whole women looking to be treated like crap is false. They just will accept it from a guy who has more going for him (looks/money/social skills/style), and a guy who has less of those attributes, but wants to give her the world, won't get the time of day.

I've seen this throughout my life and my age has actually given me a better perspective on this than if I was a college kid. In college the thought was that actual shi**y treatment actually caused the girl, to be attracted to you. Now that I've seen a lot more in my life, I've seen that it isn't a direct cause of attraction but just a byproduct of a woman going for the highest value dude she can get.

You get these big girls/undesirables throwing it at you, putting themselves in a position to be clowned by you, knowing that at best they will get sporadic D, whenever you need to bust a nut. But you also know fat/ugly guys that actually think they are sexy and want to take them out on real dates, but the girls are ignoring those guys because they want to get with you. This happens on a variety of levels, and it goes on until women realize that they may have to make concessions when it comes to the guy they want, which may never happen. There's a plethora of women, that will take any kind of treatment to be with a good looking successful man. And if that means they have to deal with side pieces, or be a side piece, then so be it.
 

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I think you niqqas are slightly misguided.

The treating them like shyt thing only kicks in when you are fukcing them like G-d fukced Mary (that was almost too vulgar for me).

Think about it. A fat stupid lookin bish with an attitude is just sad. You ignore the bish after one time of her slightly annoying you. A beautiful bish with the same attitude gets the permanent benefit of the doubt. The attractive woman would need to pull a knife on a niqqa to turn him off.

So scale that up to bedroom games and viola. If you are just okay in the sack to her, try that bullshyt if you want.

Women only put up with this treatment from a guy that fukcs them better than they ever been fukced.

Which is weird. No matter how good the sex is, if a bish crosses me, I leave her alone. Women hold on to good dikc for dear life.
 

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1. All women are different so stop generalizing.

2. Often women who allow men to treat them like shiii usually have emotional, psychological, and spiritual issues.

3. Find you a Proverbs 31 woman and you won't have any major issues.

4. When a woman knows her worth she won't put up with shiii...no matter how thorough you blowing her back out.

:yeshrug:

How many women out there know their worth, tho? How many of them actually require all men to go the extra mile without exception? How many of them are willing to concede a little when it comes to style/swag/looks for a guy that is going to take a bullet for them?
 

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Insecure women yes.. and there are no shortage of them out here.

She's vying for dude's approval, as if he is more valuable than her ie low self-esteem.

No confident women is going to be doing way more for a man than he's doing for her and vice versa.
 

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How many women out there know their worth, tho? How many of them actually require all men to go the extra mile without exception? How many of them are willing to concede a little when it comes to style/swag/looks for a guy that is going to take a bullet for them?

You have to know what to look for, what questions to ask up front, etc.
:yeshrug:

Also it helps if a man's mother and grandmother are women of integrity, and do not have a thot past (virgins till marriage).


They can easily pick out women who their sons should not waste their time with.
 
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