Do yall know any men or women who want a serious relationship but can't find anyone?

[666 ReVeNGe 666]

I know two people who even lowered their standards and they still cant find love

Must suck when you want love but cant find it

Always the third wheel, avoid group activitiesor trips cause theyre gonna be the 3rd wheel, staying inside and avoid human contact on valentines day

I know its cool on here to not get married or love a woman but there are so many people out there who want real love but will never find it

 

[AquaCityBoy]

Me

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

Me no doubt

 

[Commish]

No such thing as not having options. Everyone has options. Everyone has choices. Those two people you know need to understand that being in a relationship will not make them whole nor will it guarantee them any happiness.

 

[TheDarkCloud]

I feel like I'm gonna get depressed reading this thread.

Why, OP??

 

[Dog Based Gremlin]

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Environment and stuck in ur head. I've seen it countless times.
Also tryin too hard in meaningless ways.
People have a habit of ignoring glaring personal issues and focusing on small shyt, then whining talm bout they tried "everything".
Girl I'm glad u got ur nails done, but did u work on ur unrealistic standards? Good sir, I'm glad u switched the cologne and got a new wardrobe but u still a pathological liar.
Everybody knows the real shyt they need to work on that may repel others. Make a resolution to work on it, or stay mad b/c u not gon short cut ur way into a relationship and if u do, it's not going to be the quality one u want.

 

[King Poetic]

i know 2 brothers i work with, both making good bread , have nice pad and no kids but only seem to come across non-black women or black women with kids...

for me since the last 10 years i personally don't want anything to do with it... seeing my sister go through a divorce and seeing my parents who been together for decades just argue and argue...


the sisters i work with about 3 of them want serious relationship, but looking for GHOST IN A SUIT... 2 of them have a kid or 2 and that right there dropped them to the bottom of the list and the other one want a nikka to have everything in terms of material shyt but she doesn't have shyt at all.


ALL IN ALL MOTHERfukkERS LIVING IN FANTASY ISLAND THINKING THE PERFECT PERSON WILL DROPPED IN THEIR ARM... WAKE THE fukk UP

 

[666 ReVeNGe 666]

No such thing as not having options. Everyone has options. Everyone has choices. Those two people you know need to understand that being in a relationship will not make them whoe nor will it guarantee them any happiness.

Nah b.
I know people with legit 0 options.

I had bytches falling in love in 2 days when i used to be on POF.

Theyd beg me the cuddle.

bytches be lonely and be wanting what they see/hear on tv, social media and music.

 

[GrindMode]

Environment and stuck in ur head. I've seen it countless times.
Also tryin too hard in meaningless ways.
People have a habit of ignoring glaring personal issues and focusing on small shyt, then whining talm bout they tried "everything".
Girl I'm glad u got ur nails done, but did u work on ur unrealistic standards? Good sir, I'm glad u switched the cologne and got a new wardrobe but u still a pathological liar.
Everybody knows the real shyt they need to work on that may repel others. Make a resolution to work on it, or stay mad b/c u not gon short cut ur way into a relationship and if u do, it's not going to be the quality one u want.

wht u mean stuck in ur head?

 

[Mac Brown]

there is no such thing as someone for everyone. History dictates that everyone will not reproduce or find a mate.

cold world

 

[666 ReVeNGe 666]

i know 2 brothers i work with, both making good bread , have nice pad and no kids but only seem to come across non-black women or black women with kids...

for me since the lat 10 years i personally don't want anything to do with it... seeing my sister go through a divorce and seeing my parents who been together for decades just argue and argue...


the sisters i work with about 3 of them want serious relationship, but looking for GHOST IN A SUIT... 2 of them have a kid or 2 and that right there dropped them to the bottom of the list and the other one want a nikka to have everything in terms of material shyt but she doesn't have shyt at all.


ALL IN ALL MOTHERfukkERS LIVING IN FANTASY ISLAND THINKING THE PERFECT PERSON WILL DROPPED IN THEIR ARM... WAKE THE fukk UP

Yes thats a big issue as well.

People be thinking theyre gonna land the perfect man and shyt.

 

[Ohene]

*raises hand* lol

finding girls to fukk is easy but finding girls that wanna build is a diff story

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

wht u mean stuck in ur head?

Social anxiety. Some people have an entire Shakespearean drama unfold in their heads b4 even the smallest interactions with others. They overthink shyt, make assumptions, shoot themselves in the foot b4 they even start the race. So the only thing u end up gettin out of them is self-deprecating comments or just awkward stuff. They so busy thinking that they miss the ebb and flow of the conversation.

I hate we gotta society where people made to feel like they gotta be smooth or perfect just to interact with other people. We are scathingly hard on people literally just tryin to be themselves and that creates a lot of this anxiety to the point where they second guess every move they make and sometimes just don't wanna be bothered to move at all.

 

[DaHNIC82]

Cuffin season got brehs and brehettes feeling