Scustin Bieburr
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High value man(HVM):
1. Has a stable career he is satisfied with and makes enough money to live comfortably and get luxuries(whatever that may be for him) when he wants them.
2. Is in control of his health
(not overweight, not abusing performance enhancing drugs or addicted to anything and has a healthy relationship with food and athletics)
3. Is aware of, and has addressed his traumas(child abuse, financial and emotional abuse from people whom he has trusted in the past)
4. Has strict and clear boundaries
5. Has a support network of positive and reasonable people who aren't a drain on his spirit and emotions and finances.
6. Has hobbies and interests that make him happy
7. Is able to express his emotions in a healthy way (e.g. not easily angered or frightened, doesn't complain or cry over everything, able to sublimate his frustration into something healthy)
8. Doesn't feel the need to force people to do what he wants, and instead leads by example. People want to impress him because of his talent, confidence, wisdom and skill.
High value woman:
1. Doesn't argue so she can be entertained by the conflict
2. Has stable friendships that have lasted more than 3 years.
3. Understands her own strengths and weaknesses
4. Believes in accountability for one's actions including her own.
5. Is in control of her health.
6. Has minimal insecurities with body and appearance
7. Is more focused on substance than appearance
8. Has strict boundaries
9. Has a sense of curiosity and is interested in learning about different things and talking about them
10. Is not in denial about her traumas and issues and can deal with them in a healthy way.
1. Has a stable career he is satisfied with and makes enough money to live comfortably and get luxuries(whatever that may be for him) when he wants them.
2. Is in control of his health
(not overweight, not abusing performance enhancing drugs or addicted to anything and has a healthy relationship with food and athletics)
3. Is aware of, and has addressed his traumas(child abuse, financial and emotional abuse from people whom he has trusted in the past)
4. Has strict and clear boundaries
5. Has a support network of positive and reasonable people who aren't a drain on his spirit and emotions and finances.
6. Has hobbies and interests that make him happy
7. Is able to express his emotions in a healthy way (e.g. not easily angered or frightened, doesn't complain or cry over everything, able to sublimate his frustration into something healthy)
8. Doesn't feel the need to force people to do what he wants, and instead leads by example. People want to impress him because of his talent, confidence, wisdom and skill.
High value woman:
1. Doesn't argue so she can be entertained by the conflict
2. Has stable friendships that have lasted more than 3 years.
3. Understands her own strengths and weaknesses
4. Believes in accountability for one's actions including her own.
5. Is in control of her health.
6. Has minimal insecurities with body and appearance
7. Is more focused on substance than appearance
8. Has strict boundaries
9. Has a sense of curiosity and is interested in learning about different things and talking about them
10. Is not in denial about her traumas and issues and can deal with them in a healthy way.
