The elephant in the room is the materialism in the black community. So dudes falsely equate that a bad chick = high maintenance, and high maintenance automatically = bad chick. If you actually give value to that then you’ve already lost
Theres too many beautiful women to be beholden to that. The baddest chick I’ve ever been with was Ethiopian down to earth, was even a jay electronica fan. But when she dressed up

had men and women starting. But she was low maintenance. Lord did I fumble
But anyway to answer your question yea avoid high maintenance women. It’s a false equivalency to attractiveness