To be in a long-term relationship? 
I cant do it.
I cant do it.
Do you date women with children?
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I can only entertain a woman with 1 kid and that woman need to be making money, the kid has to be obedient and smart and the baby daddy is nowhere around
my boy married a chick who got 2 kids by 2 different dudes... his parents was mad about it, because he didn’t have kids, he got his shyt together and they feel like she’s a downgrade
my boy married a chick who got 2 kids by 2 different dudes... his parents was mad about it, because he didn’t have kids, he got his shyt together and they feel like she’s a downgrade
No. I don’t. But , the conscious hotep version of @CopiousX knows he probably should.
On a much larger scale, we probably need one whole generation of men willing to take care of other nikkas kids in order to correct the dysfunctions of black society. At some point we need to view other black people as extended family in the traditional African/old world context. It would take a huge mental shift for us to consider the collective, instead of the individual bloodline.
But I will admit I that am personally not ready for this.
@Squirrel , sorry i took your thread too deep. I think too heavy in the morning after waking up.
On a much larger scale, we probably need one whole generation of men willing to take care of other nikkas kids in order to correct the dysfunctions of black society. At some point we need to view other black people as extended family in the traditional African/old world context. It would take a huge mental shift for us to consider the collective, instead of the individual bloodline.
But I will admit I that am personally not ready for this.
@Squirrel , sorry i took your thread too deep. I think too heavy in the morning after waking up.
Vandelay
Life is absurd. Lean into it.
I'm currently dealing with a woman with 1 kid. It's not that bad. I'm 37, it happens. I'm unlikely to do it again. The kid is fine and my girl doesn't ask me for anything for him. My issue isn't so much raising another person's seed, it's that I don't have much authority in the matter.
nah. There are too many childless women in my city to even go that route. I don't think any childless person man or woman should date a person with a child if they can help it
MoveForward
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I would and I have, I honestly don't see the big deal. I would just prefer that the child has an active father in their life.
Actually6Foot3
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Nope. Waste of time. Must be something about em though because my cousin and one of my boys got hooked on em early. These nikkas got what single mothers when they were still in there early 20s
KingFreeman
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MoveForward
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I will say the only bad thing is if you meet the kid and the kid likes you, she will start trying to fast track the relationship. They don't do it on purpose though, it's natural for them to want a family.
