Do you ever feel like an ugly motherfukker?

[Prince Mongo]

Thread title might read like a joke, but seriously though, do you ever feel like you're so ugly that the opposite sex couldn't possibly be attracted to you? I feel like this sometimes, like why should any female want to be around a nikka that's like me? It's not something I feel all the time, and when I don't, I feel confident in myself, and have no problems talking to girls. When I feel like this however, it's like I can't walk out of the house feeling good about myself. Like if a female smiles at me or tries to talk to me, I feel like she must pity me, and she couldn't possibly be seriously interested in me. It makes me feel like I shouldn't have even bothered to get out of bed because I'm worthless

This might sound like some "Kent" type shyt, but it's nowhere near that bad for me. I'm not a virgin, I've actually had girlfriends, I love black women, I love being a black man, I just have a self-esteem problem that I can't seem to get over. It's like it's a reoccurring thought in the back of my head telling me I'm not good enough. Just want to see if anyone can identify. If no one can, oh well, I'll get over it somehow. If I sound like a p*ssy, idgaf, it's just what's on my mind rn

 

[SirReginald]

Not once because I was always the lover boy type Crazy part, when I was fat as hell in my early teens I got lots of play from White chicks. Yep, the so called PAWGS. Now, all the girls love me.



Unlike Kent, I ALWAYS had high self-esteem. Even when I had my downers girls loved me. Especially, my Senior years of highschool and they were majority AA chicks

 

[DrX]

no such thing as an ugly man.......welvin proved that...that retard smashing dimes......

u just need too detach yourself from what ppl think and become obsessed with your goals.....and also having economic resources help too.....

if u constantly seek woman validation youll lose everytime,

 

[Drip Bayless]

Y'all need to stop complaining man. Be grateful for what you got. So what if you ugly? Ugly nikkas can eat just fine. It could always be worse, you could be ugly, short, and broke.

 

[99 Hunter]

I'm just like you man except I've never had a gf or even talked to a girl for more than 3 mins.

My self esteem has gotten really low lately and I suspect it's because of my social anxiety and not making friends or having a gf and it's my last year of highschool

From what I'm reading your doing alright yo, just gotta work on feeling good and confident a little more. You'll,be fine.

 

[Lo-Co]

This is all there is to it. Change your mindset and improve yourself. Seeking validation is as pointless as dogs chasing cars.

no such thing as an ugly man.......welvin proved that...that retard smashing dimes......

u just need too detach yourself from what ppl think and become obsessed with your goals.....and also having economic resources help too.....

if u constantly seek woman validation youll lose everytime,

 

[Street Knowledge]

Being ugly sucks

 

[Lo-Co]

 

[KOOL-AID]

Yes ion feel like leaving the crib but that's some lame shyt so I do n just be low key...I still smile tho cuz.

 

[Rozay Oro]

Didn't read OP but I can be honest with myself. I know I'm not hideous but I'm no pretty boy neither. My confidence does take a toll from shyt. I already have enough insecurities.

 

[Michael's Black Son]

LMFAOOOOOO @ the thread title.

In before it gets depressing

 

[badtguy]

Yea I feel ugly as shyt right now my barber keep talking and laugh in it up. I used to get my hair cut during the week but now on the weekends. So now I'm growing my hairline back no shape up

 

[iBrowse]

I guess we all have our moments.

 

[Swagnicious]

 

[Prince Mongo]

Thing is, girls tells me I look good for the most part, I've heard "i'm cute" a lot more times than "I'm ugly." It just I sometimes feel like it must be some random/nonexistent reason why a girl wouldn't fukk with me that day, so my confidence is shot for the whole day. It's like my self esteem goes in and out