Do you feel negatively about your siblings?

[Music Fiend]

We all had a good upbringing and turned out well. I have one bro thats 5 years older so after childhood we were always in complete different stages of life.

I really feel like we should be close but we havent lived near each other in 15 years. it's like neither one of us put enough effort in and cant only see each other as the teenagers we were back in the day.

Now I notice anytime we talk about each other to others, it's kinda negative.

Got me wondering how common is it to not be able to feel close to you siblings?

 

[It's been real]

No, we might not speak everyday but when we do we all mesh well together. It's not much different than when we were kids, we all enjoy each other's company. My siblings are solid

 

[It's been real]

Double post

 

[Pegasus Jackson]

My punk ass sister hasn't talked to me or my parents in damn near 20 years because she claims my mama used to "Beat" her. She married a cac.

 

[Paper Boi]

nope

 

[Jcotton1]

Nope we all get along. I'm a big brother and a little brother all the same time. It's a lot of us. We don't talk everyday but we get together often.

Both sets of our Grands are still here thankfully.
They helped me become an uncle mad early cause my sibs were out and married already. I'm currently playing my older bro in 2k.

You can only extend your hand and be open you can't force anything. If you don't ride with your sibs I hope you have a solid core of friends

 

[Child_Of_God]

I don’t like one of my cousins. she is a complete bytch.

 

[CrushedGroove]

I'm the oldest by like 9 years. The rest of my siblings are within a year of each other and they're pretty close. I'm damn near like the young uncle but they always hit me up for advice or when they need to have someone to vent to that's gonna actually listen and give em some positive words.

 

[⠀X ⠀]

No. I don’t talk to them as often as I should, but they’re all cool.

 

[Music Fiend]

Word, happy you guys seem to have solid family.

I think it's just a difference in personality for me. He's an army guy and introvert and I'm more of a extraverted and creative type.

If I wanna get closer to him, I always have to be in his world and gets exhausting. Otherwise, breh isn't too interested.

I'll figure it out

 

[GoAggieGo.]

Nope. Love my baby brother and sister and would do anything for them. Lost my baby sister awhile ago, but she was my best friend up until the end. Wish I could just see her one more time. My little bro and I are close to this very day. It’s funny, because with the 6 year age gap, we fought like cats and dogs as kids. Now, we talk daily. My little girl loves her uncle as well, as he spoils her. Bro reiterates to me all the time that if anything happens to me, he’s got her, and I’d do the same for him when he decides to create a family.

 

[TEH]

I don’t like one of my cousins. she is a complete bytch.

I have a lot of cousins

I hate about 4 of them

Lol

 

[Devilinurear]

We all had a good upbringing and turned out well. I have one bro thats 5 years older so after childhood we were always in complete different stages of life.

I really feel like we should be close but we havent lived near each other in 15 years. it's like neither one of us put enough effort in and cant only see each other as the teenagers we were back in the day.

Now I notice anytime we talk about each other to others, it's kinda negative.

Got me wondering how common is it to not be able to feel close to you siblings?

I know that unknown poster thinks his sister is a lazy piece of shyt.

 

[Hostile]

Yes. They're idiots.

 

[Heafcliffe]

Feel negatively toward? Nah.

Take more effort to maintain a somewhat healthy relationship? Yes.