idk
the thing is i give very few fukks in general... so it's like, do whatever you want, man, i'll be quick to say ''it's your decision, i'll support you''
but i don't like him making my decisions for me... if it's something i see as my choice, like whether or not i'll be tagging along to x, i'll firmly say it's MY CHOICE to the end... he can attempt to say he'd like me to be there, but to say ''you're coming'' is the surest way to get me not to go or start a fight about it
i think if it came to that, i'd be more comfortable with someone who'd expect me to make choices for them than someone who'd take away my choices