Do you prefer clingy or non-clingy women?

[Mike809]

Clingy as in she's always texting you , and all over you. very affectionate and emotional.

I used to think this was the type of woman i wanted , but after being with one ...i just felt suffocated. It was my longest relationship , and its like i miss it but at the same time i don't.

then my last relationship was the total opposite , she wouldn't hit me up unless i initiated the conversation, and i hated that but at the same time enjoyed it since im someone who enjoys his alone time and dont feel like i have to be entertaining someone at all times.

I've come to realized that maybe im just a toxic person , who takes things for granted and im attracted more towards those women that dont show much affection. I been with women that start out dry in the relationship , and with time ...they end up falling in love and being all affectionate with me and that's when I lose attention.

 

[WaveWhisperer]

Have a life. Being like is exhausting .

 

[gho3st]

Clingy as in she's always texting you , and all over you. very affectionate and emotional.

I used to think this was the type of woman i wanted , but after being with one ...i just felt suffocated. It was my longest relationship , and its like i miss it but at the same time i don't.

then my last relationship was the total opposite , she wouldn't hit me up unless i initiated the conversation, and i hated that but at the same time enjoyed it since im someone who enjoys his alone time and dont feel like i have to be entertaining someone at all times.

I've come to realized that maybe im just a toxic person , who takes things for granted and im attracted more towards those women that dont show much affection. I been with women that start out dry in the relationship , and with time ...they end up falling in love and being all affectionate with me and that's when I lose attention.

Somewhere in the middle is fhe sweet spot

 

[Henri Christophe]

I dont mind it... I enjoy women expressing admiration... thats when u get the best out of them.

& just cause she text all the time doesnt mean u gotta respond all the time.

She should respect that u got shyt to do

 

[Joe Budden]

Clingy women boost my ego. There’s no better feeling than a woman who genuinely enjoys your presence. Especially when it’s not rooted in low self esteem or past trauma.

 

[MyApps]

Clingy broad

You can always tell them you gonna end the relationship if she don't chill the fukk out.

Or, turn your phone off

It ain't like she gonna leave you

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

Honestly...I think it's whether u like her or not

 

[twan83]

Don’t matter too me but if I choose it would be clingy
She want me more than I want her is how I roll

 

[Henri Christophe]

You can always tell them you gonna end the relationship if she don't chill the fukk out.

Or, turn your phone off

Yup, they start paying homage when u get ready to cut them off

You dont gotta yell, argue, hit them, or anything.

A woman that cooperative & obedient will naturally have some clingy qualities, and its not really a bad thing.

Its actually quite peaceful.

 

[-DMP-]

Clingy but has her own life.

the type that go out with her girls but she texting you pics of her outfit, giving you updates on the night (that you ain’t ask for) and complaining how she rather be with you instead.

 

[Paper Boi]

as someone said clingy is broad...

i feel like once they are no longer "clingy" again it's a broad term... it's not a good sign though..

if she gives a fukk about replying to a text as little as i do.... things are not going to work out in the end, from my experience.

 

[ZEupTWN]

Honestly I use to be one of those dudes who preferred a non-clingy women who let me do me and give me my space

But I'm over it... after awhile I've dealt with enough detached women who where yeah cool laid back easy to chill with but where in reality a headache to deal with as a s/o over time..

A women with of the balance of the two is PRIME but they are not easy to come by...

So yeah I don't mind a clingy women ...But she should be able to respect boundaries and if she don't respect it then she is not meant for me....

 

[UpNext]

I love clingy women. Especially when I don't text they ass back and they eventually learn and begrudgingly accept my boundaries

 

[Diondon]

A happy medium
Independent enough to go about her business and still loves be up under her man

 

[Bmezy]

Y’all self-esteem already on the floor. You’ll lose your minds if she wasn’t paying you any unnecessary attention.