Do you respect men who help their female friends with physical labor for free?

CrushedGroove

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OP, what if your friend is....what's the word...."fluid" or a main character in a Michael Bay movie? How would you address this?
 

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Like damn you nikkas that game less?

I’ve only once helped a female do something like that and it was putting her bed frame together. And we fuccd like 100 times prior.

Y’all nikkas be be wasting your whole off day helping a bytch you never fuccd move or mow her yard. Might as well call her mama :dame:
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Yes, it's a small sacrifice for all of the emotional labor women put into friendships.

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Many of my female friends I've known for 20+ years so for them, yes, I'd help them within reason at no cost.:wow:

Could hook a breh with a free meal at least tho.:smugdraper:
 

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This is the problem some of you guys have become so transactional. If a friend male or female needs help and I have the time/ability, I got them. I keep very few friends but all of them are as good as family to me they could ask to borrow money ( to an extent) and I got them and they would do the same thing for me if I needed it.
 

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yes I respect any person that helps a friend out. male or female.
This is true only as long as it goes both ways. (talking from the male with a non romantic female friend)

I've seen this arrangement in real life, but usually with relatives, i shovel my aunts driveway when it snows, cut her grass, drive her to church etc. , she'll bring me a plate of food, or watch my daughter for an afternoon.

even With male friends generally its understood, that if i help you move furniture, you would do the same for me in return.
 

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:yeshrug: If we're being honest most men don't have female friends unless they've been freindzoned and that isn't a real friendship.
 
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