Do you secretly thank your / partners EX, bcuz whatever mistake they made, led you to someone else..

[Mr Uncle Leroy]

I was reading an article about some chick who said her Ex (Jeremy), thought that her past was too slutty. He was ashamed for her when they were out together and she pratically ran away with him, (Jeremy) when they her ex (Manny) across the street. She told her friend and her mom, that her Ex (Jeremy) was jealous and they laughed and both said to leave Jerry. And that if he is looking for a virgin you need to find them young in jr high (no pedo) LOL. The chick in the article then said, ALL of her exes, ALL, taugher her something and she thinks of them often, just a friends. Anyways, I thought it was odd that she said he ex taught her something. I've had my ex tell me that. However it was odd hearing it in article online, and that article chick, remembers ALL of her EXES LOL - SMH ALL OF THEM. ghost of the past dikk...SMH

In the article she says her former partner (Jerry) could not get past the fact that she was a slut...and believed if she did not sleep around as much, she could have been a much better mother to their daugther. Who at 16, article chick feels is okay for her daughter to loser her virginity, her dad (Jerry), thinks not.

Anyways, it was in interesting article as to how women, Think. Its also disgusting. Especially the circumstance that led to it.

Then again, virgin relationship and marriage do much better for any type of long term relationships.

Be it faith, fate, chance, luck, determination, opportunity - Do you thank your significant others EX, because whatever happened, their mistake led them to you?
Are you more so to say, hell no, that bytch would have found me without having to do all that... Or do you appreciate that she learned who to suck dikk, ride a dikk, from her exes and yet have basic or sophisticated life skills?

 

[NotAnFBIagent]

Too long didnt read
That title sounds very simpish though

 

[Mr Uncle Leroy]

Too long didnt read
That title sounds very simpish though

Do you thank your significant others EX, because whatever happened, their mistake led them to you?

 

[DreadBrown]

Nah seems kinda

 

[Mr Uncle Leroy]

Nah seems kinda

Not really. Straight up and down you know you be thanking her.

 

[AB Ziggy]

So the dude dumped her because she had a slutty past. At least she respected him enough to let him know that outright. Most chicks with high body counts will swear by that shyt to their grave and nitpick a certain "number". That's how many relationships start out on a lie.

I personally wouldn't take a chick with slutty pasts serious but I'll give her props for not trying to hide it. But she needs to cut off communication with all them exes if she wants to have a stable relationship with her man's.

We're all them exes also stable relationships? and no cheating involved?

 

[FeloniousMonk]

Daam, be concerned with your exs past promoscuity..

Good enuff to fukk, but not good enuff to wife.

YALL the reasons why females feel insecure about they past sexual lives.

Cuz YOU insecure.

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

That's usually how it works, most people don't find their perfect match on their first few relationships. Obviously every circumstance isn't like the story mentioned in the opening post. I don't blame men for not wanting women that have had a lot of sex with other men, but people pass up good options for silly reasons every day.

Some people get passed up for not being sexually experienced when they have perfectly good qualities and are a great option, but a lot of people never learn.

 

[Dirty_Jerz]

nah

 

[Mr Uncle Leroy]

So the dude dumped her because she had a slutty past. At least she respected him enough to let him know that outright. Most chicks with high body counts will swear by that shyt to their grave and nitpick a certain "number". That's how many relationships start out on a lie.

I personally wouldn't take a chick with slutty pasts serious but I'll give her props for not trying to hide it. But she needs to cut off communication with all them exes if she wants to have a stable relationship with her man's.

We're all them exes also stable relationships? and no cheating involved?

I know chicks like that...20 years ago she said, she always tells guys, she has only been with 5 guys and she cannot tell them otherwise.

Because most guys will flip out...

In regards to the article, the article writer claims said she never cheated and later blames herself for being too honest with Jerry...

And the entire thing back fired because after Jerry changed to seeing someone else, article writer got engaged with someone else., after Jerry....AND AND there time where they could have slept together...BUT Jerry made it a point not too...

She blames herself for being too honest.

Most guys do appreciate such honesty. There was another discussion about a guy who married a girl with a past, at a party, he ran into some dudes, who said they used to have threesomes with her and her ex. She was honest, and then he flipped it on her. Then said, that he wants to have threesomes too. She didnt want to because she claims its her "past".

Dude Figured, if she was doing all kinds of sex with an ex, might as well do it with me and another girl. In that situation its a guy...